• gregorum
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    699 months ago

    as a Home Depot employee, let it be known: at least in my store: don’t assume dads and moms aren’t LGBTQ+, as there’s plenty of overlap, and everyone seems pretty much at home here. also, as an appliance specialist, i find it amusing that it’s the same-sex couples who are usually only ones who actually enjoy shopping for appliances as the task (shopping for and later using) seems more equitably split between them. although, i have observed, lesbian couples tend to view is as a dull task and gay male couples tend to view it as “shopping,” therefore “fun”.

    i automatically give all discernably queer couples a “family” discount that is within my discretion.

    • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]
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      189 months ago

      seems more equitably split between them. although, i have observed, lesbian couples tend to view is as a dull task

      Was a bit surprised until that part. No way my moms shopping would seem like an equitable split between them. Granted, one of my moms is regularly assumed to be a guy (I’ve had my high school’s front office tell me to go to a remote parking lot to see my “dad” before - had fun messing with my teacher by pointing out I don’t have one as I left the classroom). So people might not even notice they are a lesbian couple and many probably assume she’s a dad when with us. Home Depot has always been far closer.

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        9 months ago

        I do my best not to assume, and use gender neutral language, wherever possible. In my experience, same-sex couples are typically quite enthusiastic about telling me about their recent marriage, or even that they are a couple. I find it lovely. 

        • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]
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          79 months ago

          Nice. Curious if this is mostly younger couples. My parents grew up in a time less accepting (and we are in Texas), so that seems foreign to me.

          • gregorum
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            9 months ago

            not mostly younger couples, oddly. there’s a pretty good spread.

            i’m in central FL

          • gregorum
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            59 months ago

            the family discount is often bestowed secretly ;)

            • @RegalPotoo@lemmy.world
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              49 months ago

              “family discount” as in “oh look the box has a tiny ding in it - guess this damaged stock and therefore I had better ring this up at cost plus”?

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                In fact, we have a quota for how much in discounts we’re supposed to give every month (but not for sales, although we have goals for that). It’s weird. As a specialist, I can mark down just about anything up to $50 off as long as it’s not more than 25% of the total price.

                For appliance sales, that typically amounts to the cost of our haul-away service for an old appliance or the vent kit and plug for a dryer.

                • @RegalPotoo@lemmy.world
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                  19 months ago

                  That’s interesting - thanks for explaining. I guess this is baked in, and designed so people feel like they are getting a great deal?

            • @otp@sh.itjust.works
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              19 months ago

              Family discount…do single people often buy appliances? And why would single people be better off than families for there to be a need for a family discount? Lol

              • gregorum
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                29 months ago

                “Family” as in members of the lgbtq+ family, not just people who have a family.

                I give plenty of discounts to other people, too.

              • @AtmaJnana@lemmy.world
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                19 months ago

                … people who are single generally still have family members of one sort or another. Humans are generally not reproducing through parthenogenosis.

      • gregorum
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        69 months ago

        Gay guys always go for the LGs and Samsungs. But Samsung makes shit appliances, so I steer them away from them.

        • @Death_Equity@lemmy.world
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          69 months ago

          The two brands that have high reviews and moderate pricing. I swear Samsung pads their reviews.

          They could be sensible and spend more on a more reliable product, but no.

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            Samsung relies on JD Power for their reviews, and JD Powers has just sold reviews to manufacturers since the late 90s. They’re overpriced crap.