• Wren@lemmy.today
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      It goes deeper than that, too.

      Pop culture painting dads as irresponsible parents comes from the idea that women are natural caregivers while men are just boys who work. It’s a cultural bias that still affects legislation and custody rulings, and why it’s a goddamn fight to get changing table in men’s public washrooms.

      Funny drunk dad meme is just the scum on the surface of a shitty lake.

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      Yes because dad criminal, mom not criminal

      Sweet sexism.

      ::: NOT EVERTHING IS FUCKING SEXISM, THE MEME WAS ABOUT DRUNK DADS :::

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        Yes, it perpetuates the harmful stereotype that only men can have addiction issues. Gender stereotypes are harmful to all genders.

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      That’s putting it a bit abrasively, but there’s a nugget of truth there.

      An anecdote: I saw some (drug?) commercial where the wife orders pizza because the Dad’s a bumbling idiot for even attempting to use the kitchen. Everything about the way it was presented just screamed… ‘50s sexism,’ basically?