• nothx [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    6 hours ago

    I still remind myself that it’s a thing and I’m not a screwup. I’m in my 30’s and have been diagnosed for decades. Patience and grace is the best thing we can do for ourselves and other ADHD brains.

    • Brave Little Hitachi Wand@feddit.uk
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      6 hours ago

      Cheers to that. If you have any magic tricks to help a little one deal with emotional reactivity, though, I’m all ears. Little fella gets upset faster than a dog eats bacon.

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        5 hours ago

        I feel like I’m just gonna regurgitate one of my therapists, but there are two things I try to do.

        In the moment I try to stay mindful and recognize I’m getting worked up, that way I can take a step back, take a break, and come back with a clearer perspective.

        Journaling also helps to reflect on the situation that triggered it and the response I had in the moment. Obviously the journaling depends on their age, but I think it’s probably a good practice to start as soon as they are able.