I moved to a house (my first) recently and we bought full size chocolate bars and beef jerky sticks to give out (in case someone doesn’t want chocolate).

Not a single child came. I didn’t see or hear anyone under 20 the entire night. We all stayed out on the porch for hours.

The only chocolate bar we gave out was to the pizza lady.

Does nobody trick-or-treat? We have kids in the neighborhood. I see them rising bikes during the day.

How was everyone else’s Halloween?

Edit: We got one! Long after trick or treating hours were over, a little cowboy knocked on our door. I gave him like 5 candy bars and 2 jerky sticks. He was very happy. His dad stopped in a car and he got out to knock on our door. I reckon it had to do with the fake neon LED “trick or treat” sign we hung on the porch.

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    We often only get a couple trick-or-treaters every year, and this year was no different, except we left the front door open all night, which means we heard and saw kids walking past our house.

    I’m one of the few groups that came to our porch, I heard one girl whisper to her friends, “that’s the creepy house”

    So, I guess our house is the haunted house of the neighborhood. I’d be ok with that if we actually had any ghosts.

    We’ve been here for over 140 years, and I’ve never seen a single ghost.

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      We’ve been here for over 140 years, and I’ve never seen a single ghost.

      Any chance you have a copy of the “Handbook for the Recently Deceased” lying around? You’ve been at that house a pretty long time.

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      We’ve been here for over 140 years, and I’ve never seen a single ghost.

      The call is coming from within the house.

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      The only thing you can do is lean into the creepiness. Only the bravest trick or treaters will make to the door alive to get some candy. And oh boy will they be rewarded.

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    It’s always neighborhood dependent. We live in a kid-heavy town but trick-or-treating just sort of naturally condenses into certain streets/neighborhoods, and the town even shuts down Main Street for it. So the kids on your street might go to other neighborhoods to team up with friends, etc.

    The only way to know is to ask neighbors who have been there for a while what the vibe is usually like on your street.

    Our kid is 2 so tonight was his first time trick-or-treating. Our street always has some houses with candy but we went to a different neighborhood to go with friends. One of the houses we went to said they weren’t prepared because in 20 years they’ve never had anyone come! They were excited to see people, though.

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      For us this is exactly it. My street is full of kids (I think my husband and I are the only ones without them) but the last few years neighborhood block parties several blocks down have become the thing and everyone, kids and adults go there. Lots of fun and we now go there too but it does make me sad that we don’t really get trick or treaters. My husbanded gave out pretty much the whole bowl to one group at the end of the night

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    This thread is sad.

    As a kid, my parents(read: mostly my mom) would see 400-500 kids over the night. Was really fun, you’d see everyone out having a great time.

    In my last place it was mostly childless renters in the neighborhood but we’d still get a good ~100.

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      Wow, that’s a lot. We had 119 last year and thought that was a lot. It’s still only 8:25 here but we’re on pace for maybe 80 this year.

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    I can sense the disappointment, I’m sorry to hear that.

    I noticed in my neighborhood, all the kids and parents went trick or treating last Friday. Why, I have no idea, kind of fucking dumb. It’s getting dark at 6PM, there should be no problem that Halloween is on a week night.

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    I live in a small town where the local businesses on the two main cross streets hand out candy as well as have trunk-or-treats in the parking lots. Hardly any kids go around the neighborhoods anymore. It’s a bummer

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    We used to prepare for Halloween when we first moved to this house. Gave up after we only got 2-3 kids a year. No one seems to go house to house anymore, they all get funneled to the sanctioned downtown street party or the school parking lot event. Now Halloween is just about the only night of the year we turn the porch light off, just in case those 2-3 kids come by on accident.

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    Damn, we recently got a house too. And I bought two large bags of candy.

    In the beginning, I didn’t think a lot was gonna come. So dm the first few groups I gave a handful of candy to.

    More avd more showed up, and I eventually ran out. Had to tell a bunch of kids we were out, but I couldn’t take it anymore and ran to the store to get two more bags.

    Handing tid batch out with a bit more care, but it didn’t matter, we eventually ran out of this too.

    This is a very walkable neighborhood though

    Next year I need more…

    Spooky ghost and spider

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    Just happens in some places. Your neighbors or previous occupants may have been inactive or terrible treat givers.

    My neighborhood has gotten worse over my tenure here. Three houses (including me) in a two block stretch that hand out candy.

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    It all depends on the average age of families and density of family dwellings in your area. My neighborhood had scads of kids. We handed out a ton of candy. It was almost non stop trick or treaters for two hours.

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    I’m usually the pass-out-candy parent, but my kids wanted to split up this year so I got to experience exactly why my street gets only a handful every year (and barely any this year). Four blocks down is practically a street-long block party. At least 50% of the houses are not just active but decked out. We saw cars dropping kids off, and we saw a family from school that doesn’t live in our neighborhood. I get it but I’m kinda sad my mostly-retiree street doesn’t see any action.

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    Awww I’m sorry it sucks to be prepared and get no one. We’re in a big trick or treating neighborhood but on a side street and last year we only got like 5 visitors. This year we just took candy over to our neighbor on the more popular street and didn’t hand any out at our house. One street over from our house and the entire sidewalk and street was mobbed with under-10’s. I think it’s highly neighborhood- and street-dependent.

    Ask your neighbors where the good trick or treating spot is. It may be far away from you and people are just driving there instead of sticking around the neighborhood. Or it’s possible if you’re in a less walkable area that people might do more “trunk or treat” instead where they coordinate and go to a parking lot to do trick or treating.

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    We didn’t get any visits either, second year this has happened. I’m definitely cutting back how much candy I buy next year. I think parents are preferring trunk n treat or whatever controlled halloween exchanges are going on these days. Aww well, guess I’ll just have to eat all this myself.

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    I’ve had two trick or treaters come by my house in 15 years. One year I got the king sized bars and I was going to try to build a reputation. But no one came by.

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    Reach out to friends who have kids and tell them to come by on Halloween for free candy. Also be sure to decorate your house.

    Also if you’re in Nextdoor.app you can add yourself to a list of houses handing out candy.

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    First year after we moved in, we decorated, bought candy, the whole nine yards. No one came. Next year we bought a smaller bag of candy, and ate it all ourselves. Left a bowl of candy out about 6 or 7 years later, after more kids started appearing on the street. Still not a one.

    There’s a bunch of kids on the street, and a few people do put up some nice decorations, but we found out that everyone either does this trunk or treat thing at the church at the front of the community, or goes downtown, where they block off the streets and all the big houses decorate and have movies in their yard and stuff.