At the risk of oversimplifying this issue, I feel it’s important to make a distinction between “men who are desperate for sex” (if that were all it was, it would be a VERY easy problem to fix), and men who expect to have someone constantly by their side who is available to have sex whenever they want while not having or expressing any needs of their own. Because that’s simply not how relationships work. There’s a ton of men who think like that regardless of conservative tradwife rabbit holes, and they need to snap out of their little fantasy world.

That’s perfectly fine though. And I say that as a professional dev. The problem is when people assume you can actually build an entire software/service architecture of any complexity just through vibe coding.

Currently LLMs are great for helping me pick out the curtains or even to help me assemble some furniture, but I would NEVER let them build the entire house, if that makes sense.