The parties basically swapped roles though, they were founded by the people that today would be the Republican party based on platform and beliefs
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Call me osha the way I’m demanding a railing
That’s a super long thread, is there a good summary somewhere for those of us who suffer from “bookmark this for later and then never revisit it” flavors of neurodivergence?
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FreeAssembly@awful.systems•the Awful Systems list of LLM-tainted software needs a name
5·9 days agoShitBucket is quite funny
I got lucky with this one. Started my transition at 5’10", HRT has made me 5’8".
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PC Gaming@lemmy.ca•How video games help trans people find gender euphoriaEnglish
31·20 days agoBeing trans isn’t about sexual orientation, and people can make their games about whatever they want. Let people enjoy things, it’s ok if it’s not for you.
Just chiming in with the others that you’re describing genderfluidity! It’s helpful information if you’re interested in doing anything with it, but just knowing doesn’t mean you have to take steps towards any sort of transition.
I began my transition under the genderfluid flag before realizing that I’m more genderflux (fluctuating intensity of gender, rather than fluctuating gender identity) between girl and “somewhere in the middle” - for me the question that helped me figure out what I wanted to actually do with that knowledge was “If someone just glanced at me for a second, what would I want them to assume I am?” And the answer is “girl” a lot of the time with “shrug” some of the time.
I thought I was “fine” being a guy but damn did I hate myself. Now I love me and find me worth caring about, thanks to estrogen and self-care lol.
Helps me a lot that my spouse is demi, and is my biggest supporter no matter how I present.
I use Chezmoi and a git repo for keeping mine in sync with each other across several machines.
AI image detection is a crapshoot at best, just fyi. They are poor indicators of whether something is actually AI, and shouldn’t be trusted any more than a coin flip.
And “Idgaf if there’s a legion of demons, I have work to do and I ain’t gonna let them stop me.” And “my family is most important to me and if you don’t agree with that, do better”
My group started with two guys and three girls. Now I’m one of the girls and the guy is the only one
Came out to my parents as trans this year.
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egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics@lemmy.blahaj.zone•egg🤨irl
15·2 months agoHonestly as a transfem with mostly social and biochemical dysphoria, but with no bottom dysphoria at all, it makes at least a small amount of sense.
If I can be a girl who wants to keep her OEM dick, then why can’t a cis girl want one too?
Same kind of stuff that makes people get a salmacian. People are allowed to want whatever genitals they want, regardless of identity. It just hits weird to think of it that way 🤷♀️
Except maybe that last one rofl
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196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Its not ruley weird, there's a method to our madnessEnglish
1·2 months agoI wasn’t picking a fight though? I’m pointing out that someone used the wrong term for us, and explaining why that term is hurtful, with the context that there are people who use it that way on purpose to be hurtful.
I am not accusing the OP of saying it hurtfully on purpose and I don’t comprehend why you’re so offended about it. Of course there are bigger discussions to be had, but this isn’t the place for that and I was not trying to start some big discussion or fight. I was informing someone of a way they can be kinder to people and avoid looking like they belong to those same hate groups that want us dead.
Not sure which part got you riled up but it sounds like we’re on the same team here.
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196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Its not ruley weird, there's a method to our madnessEnglish
2·2 months agoIt’s not a win, it’s a way to talk about trans women by othering them and calling them something besides women
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Gaming@lemmy.zip•If Valve creates an "entry point" for living room PCs, the console-beating Steam Machines will follow, argues Baldur's Gate 3's publishing directorEnglish
1·2 months agoThe form factor kinda does that by having a controller attached, limiting power consumption to 15W, and limiting connectivity to a single USB port
It sounds like you’re holding yourself hostage a little, and might want to take a step back and a deep breath. Evaluate your situation and see whether so much preparation and planning is really necessary - or whether you can just pick a small group you know will be supportive to come out to first, and then maybe just live as yourself?
As for clothing being expensive: Thrift stores, thrift stores, thrift stores! I’ve built almost my entire wardrobe from thrifting and it’s been a delight to only spend $30-40 at a time for several different pieces.
Edit : this was supposed to be in response to the main thread but ohwell








Netflix has gained the power of repetitive exposition? Such a feat has only been attained by anime before! One should expect it there, but now it’s really bothering OP!