[orange, looking weary, while pink looks on] Mate… Why would you say you’re hetero, the person you’re dating used to be a dude, that makes you gay
[green, holding hands with pinkblue] The person you’re dating used to be a kid, so… you’re a pedophile?
[orange looks pissed]
[green shrugs smugly]


Honest question… cis person of whatever preference dates trans person of whatever gender… Is that not always identified as two queer people in a queer relationship? E. G., if a cis straight presenting guy dates a trans woman, for their first time, stepping out of norms, are they not learning they’re queer?
I’ve thought the same about swingers, enm, etc that are otherwise straight cis couples… they’re literally “queer” per se in that they are atypical or non-normative.
Please inform me either academically or practically, I’d appreciate either.
At least if she’s had surgery and also simply looks like a woman, I don’t see how it’s even stepping out of norms