Hah I’m in the same boat.

So I got my foot in the door with my career because I met my then-girlfriends then-best friend’s then-husband.

I met a lot of friends through that group. The husband and wife were both in our wedding party.

When we came back from our honeymoon, there was news …

There was another couple in the group and the two pairs were swingers…they partner swapped one day and never went back. They stuck with each other’s partner. The married couple get divorced, the wife married another friend from the group. The husband and that friends gf ran off to another state. Who knows what happened to them.

Couple years go by and the wife’s therapist essentially tells her to cheat on her husband with an old highschool fling. Meanwhile she was also perpetually unemployed because she has chronic pain, so he’s a full-time caregiver and sole breadwinner.

So…she’s a bitch. But he’s cool. He crashed with us for a couple months while they sold the house and went through the divorce. We took in his dog. He’s cool as shit, like a dachshund/pitbull mix. Weird as hell. But cool.