• h3rmit@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      3 hours ago

      I personally do not care, I usually do not want to go into communities/places where I’m not welcome. But disceiminating basing on gender, sex, sexuality, race, ideology, etc… usually frowned upon.

      I just find that double standard quite pronounced.

      • starelfsc2@sh.itjust.works
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        42 minutes ago

        I would agree with you but this is like being surrounded by men for 99% of the time all the time forever and then having a community that is not 99% men.

        That said I don’t fully agree with them, half the time it really is weirdos downplaying women’s experiences, but the other half is a woman giving a story and ending it with something like “men are disgusting,” and someone (not very nicely) replying “what do you mean men are disgusting??”

        I wouldn’t say that’s a reasonable response, but definitely understandable, and I’ve seen it downplayed as an incel response pretty often