It sounds like justification because it is. Putting sex on a pedestal and treating it like some extra special thing you only do for procreation with your soulmate leads to all kinds of weird hangups about it. It’s not common for someone to get lucky enough to find a partner who matches them on the first attempt.
I never insinuated anything as such. And it also 100% sounds like justification for being loose…
It sounds like justification because it is. Putting sex on a pedestal and treating it like some extra special thing you only do for procreation with your soulmate leads to all kinds of weird hangups about it. It’s not common for someone to get lucky enough to find a partner who matches them on the first attempt.
i did. that was a long time ago. life happened and now we’re apart.