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      I do love that picture. I wish it’d be more reflected in real life. That said, none of those people are being brought DOWN - the people in need are being brought UP. Big difference

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          Agreed. But it’s not “would you rather be stuck in the woods alone with a bear or a misogynist”, it’s with a man, isn’t it? People can’t help what they’re born as. You’re judging them for something completely out of their control. Their gender no less, which a lot of men aren’t happy they were assigned. And on the other hand you’re actively shitting on trans masc choices to be men. I just don’t think this sweeping sexism is the answer.

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            If I offered you some candy from a big bowl of Skittles and told you that only a handful were poisoned, would you eat one?

            One bad apple spoils the bunch etc.

            The man/bear thing seems stupid to me - but that’s probably just because I’ve missed the point of it.

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            It’s with a random man. You’re not a random man, you’re you. If a random man isn’t safe, that doesn’t mean anything about you. You’re not Spiders Georg.

            That’s why it looks like solidarity when you defend the random man.

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          A potential solution to a lot of gender-related issues is to make agender the default. Gender should be opt-in not opt-out. This way more people will not have a gender to be treated as, and people will get more used to treating people in the same way with little regard for gender.

          However, this would be difficult.