• vzq@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    Kinda burying the lede here. They are all different forms of “questioning their authority”

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      1 year ago

      I dont agree it’s about authority at all. This entire list is about showing disrespect for someone and expecting them to be OK with it.

      To allistic people, everything on this list is insulting behavior that will offend them (except not wanting to eat certain foods).

      This behavior will work fine with autistic people though. But you can’t expect it to work with allistic people.

      Different brains equals different expectations of what is acceptable social behavior. That’s it.

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        1 year ago

        Yeah well when “respect” means “micro managing myself to glorify someone else because they demand it”, then yeah. I’m disrespectful as fuck. Anyone who demands I show my belly so they can feel like they’re in charge can kindly go fuck themselves. They’re not in charge. Nobody gets that special pampering from me.

      • JoYo 🇺🇸@lemmy.ml
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        1 year ago

        people get right indignant when encountering someone else’s food choices.

        i hear the difference between an allergy and an intolerance as if that changes the amount of suffering endured.

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          I’m really struggled with figuring out how anything on that list has anything to do with “dominance”.

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          1 year ago

          Eh, these kind of people are always throwing tantrum no matter agreed or refused playing their dominance games, i personally try to avoid such people, filter out negativity and only keep positivity, also i relate strongly to your comment

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          1 year ago

          I just told you it’s not about dominance or authority, but sure, you probably think it is, since your response is immature and ridiculous.