• Transporter Room 3@startrek.website
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    11 months ago

    I tell my wife this all the time.

    You didn’t ask to be here, you don’t owe your parents anything even if they weren’t abusive shitstains, stop setting yourself on fire to keep them warm.

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      11 months ago

      I tell this to myself often. Yet it is so very hard to actually believe it and act upon it with the amount of baggage that brings with it. :/