• Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
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      11 months ago

      It’s might sound kinda silly but one thing that helped me be kinder to myself was thinking about how I treat others

      I’d never treat people I cared about how I was treating myself so trying to be as kind to myself as I was to others was the goal I set for myself

      And overtime it became easier and easier to be kind to myself about my short comings

      Yeah I may fail to do all the tasks I set out for myself today but I did accomplish somethings

      It may even be little things some days and other days it’s not a whole lot at all

      But the kinder I was to myself the more I found myself able to do the things I set out to do

      I still stumble some days but that’s okay

        • Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          1·
          11 months ago

          I only wish I had learned it earlier in life

          That would have helped me a lot over the years

          So the next best thing is to help other people with it so that they don’t have to suffer as long as I did

      • Uiop@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        2·
        10 months ago

        That reminds me of Rossmanns last video where he tells the story of how he discovered that he himself has also worth, especially compared to brokem apple computers.