I don’t have any issue talking to girls when the intent is not romantic/sexual. OK I have met someone, first few conversations went alright, how do I transition to something else without being embarrassed and feeling like a dick? Like, if I want to say something technical or communicate for something else, everything is fine. Otherwise, I feel very embarrassed and feel like I will be disgusting to her if I said something… I guess it is me trying to be OK with everyone and not have more people hate me… I don’t know if I can take any more people hating me… makes me feel worthless…

  • GregorGizeh@lemmy.zipEnglish
    8·
    6 months ago

    Great advice for someone already scared of talking to women… Why not give them an irrational fear of miscommunication as well huh

      • GregorGizeh@lemmy.zipEnglish
        41·
        6 months ago

        Women for the most part aren’t insane demons trying to ruin your life, if you talk and act like a normal and respectful person chances are you won’t get wrongfully accused, wtf…

        • Nougat@fedia.io
          26·
          6 months ago

          Women for the most part aren’t insane demons …

          I agree. But how can you tell? When there’s a risk of arrest and criminal charges, it’s better to just steer clear.

          • GregorGizeh@lemmy.zipEnglish
            2·
            5 months ago

            That is equivalent to not driving a car because people occasionally have accidents in them. Probably not even a proper analogy because having a car accident is a lot more likely than a woman conjuring up false accusations against you out of nowhere.