Thinking of looking for another instance where I don’t have to wait 4 weeks just to upload a profile pic lol. But otherwise it’s interesting getting a more unfiltered look at Lemmy. And eye opening seeing downvotes again. People downvote the dumbest shit, like there’s people around that haven’t realised that there’s a third option instead of upvoting or downvoting - just scrolling past and ignoring if you don’t personally like it.
To be fair the 4 weeks thing is a one-time issue, once you’re done with that Lemm.ee is pretty good. Good admins, and indeed nice to have a more unfiltered view
Thought I’d just ask you here in this comment chain seeing as you’re pretty extensively well traveled in the Fediverse lol. What other good options are there for instances that don’t do a lot of de-federating (and give you the general ‘Reddit’ experience) but also aren’t completely unmoderated? I don’t want to end up somewhere that half of the Fediverse de-federates from for whatever reason. Is it just lemmy.world and lemm.ee?
Thanks, I guess I’ll just try doing homework this time to find exactly what I’m looking for. An instance that just doesn’t do any de-federating whatsoever is also kinda scary because I don’t want CSAM and shit ending up in my feed. I also don’t want to end up cut off from places like Blåhaj because of admins not taking action over certain things.
So I need something more like world or ee. But without any limits on image uploading either because I’d rather find an instance that can be both message board and image host than look for some third party image host platform to use that may or may not work nicely with various apps.
My problem is not reading properly. Because I was taken by surprise by the no downvotes thing when I signed up on Blåhaj and I was taken by surprise here on lemm.ee with the 4 week wait and 500kb limit on file uploads. So basically I just need to do my homework and read properly.
I have always got good vibes from zip users and communities in the past. I see that one instance they de-federate from unfortunately is that hilariouschaos instance. One of the reasons I signed up here was to see the alt community there. That instance definitely gives me certain vibes though and it’s a pity that there’s a few communities on there of interest to me. But yeah, I’d like to find an instance that gets rid of illegal content and doesn’t allow straight bigotry under the guise of ‘free speech’ but I’d also like to be able to decide for myself sometimes. And block users or communities myself if they disagree with my politics or lifestyle.
Thanks very much for the help here. The links you shared are definitely going to be useful in helping me find what I’m looking for. This instance that I’m on right now is almost perfect for me so far, apart from the image hosting limitations.
You’re welcome to make an account on crazypeople.online. The sidebar should tell you all you need to know. If it turns out it’s not your thing you can always try another instance.
Hey @LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al, I hope you don’t mind me summoning you here. You’re the one that inspired me to start looking around for a different instance so I want to ask, what’s the deal with lazysoci.al? Was it missing something for you that you get out of lemmy.world? And does lemmy.world federate with hilariouschaos?
No problem mate! Lazysoci.al was just the random instance I picked when I joined !WomensStuff@lazysoci.al is a lazysocial instance so when I set up this account rather than CheeseToastie, I went for lazysoci.al. Lemmyworld I set up so I could access other instances but I cant remember which one. I just checked and I can access hilariouschaos stuff from both my lemmyworld and lazysoci.al accounts.
Thanks! It definitely does help. I’m looking for the fabled perfect (for me) instance lol. Somewhere that’s going to at least keep users protected from CSAM or other horrid things but that isn’t going to also be deciding for their users when it comes to non illegal content.
Sounds like either world or ee are the answer. So I’ll do a little more homework but probably end up signing up with world again.
Yeah it’s not too bad but pretty annoying. I’d rather just answer more complicated questions and wait 1 day for someone to confirm my account when signing up than this 4 week limit personally. Quick signup but then you’re locked out of one of the most common functionalities around here for a month first.
But yeah, it’s nice getting to see the underbelly of this place myself. Not as filthy as I expected lol. Also started using a new app, Summit, that goes beyond any other app I’ve tried so far. So I’ve been having fun tagging users and making multicommunities.
Oh nice, thanks for the heads up. How are you enjoying lemm.ee so far?
Thinking of looking for another instance where I don’t have to wait 4 weeks just to upload a profile pic lol. But otherwise it’s interesting getting a more unfiltered look at Lemmy. And eye opening seeing downvotes again. People downvote the dumbest shit, like there’s people around that haven’t realised that there’s a third option instead of upvoting or downvoting - just scrolling past and ignoring if you don’t personally like it.
To be fair the 4 weeks thing is a one-time issue, once you’re done with that Lemm.ee is pretty good. Good admins, and indeed nice to have a more unfiltered view
Thought I’d just ask you here in this comment chain seeing as you’re pretty extensively well traveled in the Fediverse lol. What other good options are there for instances that don’t do a lot of de-federating (and give you the general ‘Reddit’ experience) but also aren’t completely unmoderated? I don’t want to end up somewhere that half of the Fediverse de-federates from for whatever reason. Is it just lemmy.world and lemm.ee?
You can use this list and sort by Active users to have an idea of the servers with the most users: https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/list
Out of that list, https://lemmy.today/instances is know for having an empty blocked instances list, so they don’t defederate anyone.
In the other direction, you can use a tool such as https://defed.xyz/check?name=lemm.ee&software=lemmy (https://defed.xyz/check?name=lemmy.today&software=lemmy) to see which instances defederate a certain instance.
Thanks, I guess I’ll just try doing homework this time to find exactly what I’m looking for. An instance that just doesn’t do any de-federating whatsoever is also kinda scary because I don’t want CSAM and shit ending up in my feed. I also don’t want to end up cut off from places like Blåhaj because of admins not taking action over certain things.
So I need something more like world or ee. But without any limits on image uploading either because I’d rather find an instance that can be both message board and image host than look for some third party image host platform to use that may or may not work nicely with various apps.
My problem is not reading properly. Because I was taken by surprise by the no downvotes thing when I signed up on Blåhaj and I was taken by surprise here on lemm.ee with the 4 week wait and 500kb limit on file uploads. So basically I just need to do my homework and read properly.
Maybe https://lemmy.zip/ ?
They have good reputation, regular reports on !home@lemmy.zip, very short defederation list: https://lemmy.zip/instances
I have always got good vibes from zip users and communities in the past. I see that one instance they de-federate from unfortunately is that hilariouschaos instance. One of the reasons I signed up here was to see the alt community there. That instance definitely gives me certain vibes though and it’s a pity that there’s a few communities on there of interest to me. But yeah, I’d like to find an instance that gets rid of illegal content and doesn’t allow straight bigotry under the guise of ‘free speech’ but I’d also like to be able to decide for myself sometimes. And block users or communities myself if they disagree with my politics or lifestyle.
Thanks very much for the help here. The links you shared are definitely going to be useful in helping me find what I’m looking for. This instance that I’m on right now is almost perfect for me so far, apart from the image hosting limitations.
You’re welcome to make an account on crazypeople.online. The sidebar should tell you all you need to know. If it turns out it’s not your thing you can always try another instance.
Glad to hear! Hopefully in a few weeks you’ll be all set!
Hey @LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al, I hope you don’t mind me summoning you here. You’re the one that inspired me to start looking around for a different instance so I want to ask, what’s the deal with lazysoci.al? Was it missing something for you that you get out of lemmy.world? And does lemmy.world federate with hilariouschaos?
No problem mate! Lazysoci.al was just the random instance I picked when I joined !WomensStuff@lazysoci.al is a lazysocial instance so when I set up this account rather than CheeseToastie, I went for lazysoci.al. Lemmyworld I set up so I could access other instances but I cant remember which one. I just checked and I can access hilariouschaos stuff from both my lemmyworld and lazysoci.al accounts.
Hope that helps!
Thanks! It definitely does help. I’m looking for the fabled perfect (for me) instance lol. Somewhere that’s going to at least keep users protected from CSAM or other horrid things but that isn’t going to also be deciding for their users when it comes to non illegal content.
Sounds like either world or ee are the answer. So I’ll do a little more homework but probably end up signing up with world again.
Great good luck 👍
Yeah it’s not too bad but pretty annoying. I’d rather just answer more complicated questions and wait 1 day for someone to confirm my account when signing up than this 4 week limit personally. Quick signup but then you’re locked out of one of the most common functionalities around here for a month first.
But yeah, it’s nice getting to see the underbelly of this place myself. Not as filthy as I expected lol. Also started using a new app, Summit, that goes beyond any other app I’ve tried so far. So I’ve been having fun tagging users and making multicommunities.
Hello @sunaurus@lemm.ee, have you all every considered reducing the avatar upload timeframe to 2 weeks instead of 4?