My favorite part of this is that the single-choice circular option control is (or used to be) called a “radio button”. I wonder what fraction of people today have any idea why it’s called that. I guess we’re lucky it’s not called a “light switch button” since it’s been 80+ years since light switches were like that.
They used to refer to women with erect nipples appearing through their blouses as having their high beams on, because the old-style floor switch for the high beams was a little cylinder that resembled an erect nipple.
Thank you. I’ve been told “your headlights are on” and it’s a pointless and embarrassing thing to say to someone. Nipples get hard in the cold, they get hard from friction against fabric (note to those who need to hear it: NO, HARD NIPPLES DO NOT MEAN AROUSAL I’ve met men in their 30s that need to be told that, so let’s nip that rumor in the bud right now… pun partially-intended.)
The point is, it’s automatic and involuntary, so calling attention to it (even as a quiet aside) is beyond useless. I hope more people are like you, because personally I can’t wait for such “headlights” comments to end.
That’s awful - I’m sorry you had to experience that.
Yea absolutely, it’s just a normal bodily reaction. I’d be lying if I said I don’t notice it when women/female-presenting people don’t wear a bra, but there really is nothing to it. I moreso welcome it because I feel like it’s a way for them to reclaim the stigmatisation that comes with “revealing” their bodies. Of course without blatantly pointing to it - who am I to comment such a thing?
Thank you, I’m trying my best :). I guess such comments and analogies are a product of their time and should be left there. I feel like we’ve made so much progress collectively as a society, with exceptions proving the rule, that such comments, derogatory or demeaning language in general, don’t usually show up that much in daily conversation and shouldn’t overall. Then again, my view is likely skewed because I’m barely around men and most people I am around are also very much left-leaning just like I am, so the language we use is very considerate and thought out, if that makes sense.
Now that I talk of it, a thing that’s been grinding my gears recently is that so many people on here seem to be ok with using the r-word in regular conversation. “R-word” this and “that’s so r-word of you” that - like, why? It’s just so unnecessary. Same goes for the f-word (gay slur). I thought we’ve been past this already?
That bothers me too. Unlike some of the nonsense that’s becoming common here lately, the R-word slurs have been going on since before the past few waves of Redditors arrived - it’s homegrown ableism farmed right here on Lemmy.
I appreciate all the rest of your comment too. I am on a short break at work and can’t respond to all of it, but I will wanted to say that I’m glad to hear your input.
High beam switch on the floor is superior to all other high beam arrangements. Got a '98 truck and have seriously considered putting it there, shouldn’t be that hard to do.
Radio buttons are named after the physical buttons that were used on old radios to select preset stations.[3][2] When one of the buttons is pressed, the other buttons pop out while leaving the pressed one pushed in.
My favorite part of this is that the single-choice circular option control is (or used to be) called a “radio button”. I wonder what fraction of people today have any idea why it’s called that. I guess we’re lucky it’s not called a “light switch button” since it’s been 80+ years since light switches were like that.
Ask me about the “high beam switch” lol.
tell me about the high beam swirch please
They used to refer to women with erect nipples appearing through their blouses as having their high beams on, because the old-style floor switch for the high beams was a little cylinder that resembled an erect nipple.
You went all out and I love you for it.
yea not sure I vibe with that lol
Thank you. I’ve been told “your headlights are on” and it’s a pointless and embarrassing thing to say to someone. Nipples get hard in the cold, they get hard from friction against fabric (note to those who need to hear it: NO, HARD NIPPLES DO NOT MEAN AROUSAL I’ve met men in their 30s that need to be told that, so let’s nip that rumor in the bud right now… pun partially-intended.)
The point is, it’s automatic and involuntary, so calling attention to it (even as a quiet aside) is beyond useless. I hope more people are like you, because personally I can’t wait for such “headlights” comments to end.
That’s awful - I’m sorry you had to experience that.
Yea absolutely, it’s just a normal bodily reaction. I’d be lying if I said I don’t notice it when women/female-presenting people don’t wear a bra, but there really is nothing to it. I moreso welcome it because I feel like it’s a way for them to reclaim the stigmatisation that comes with “revealing” their bodies. Of course without blatantly pointing to it - who am I to comment such a thing?
Thank you, I’m trying my best :). I guess such comments and analogies are a product of their time and should be left there. I feel like we’ve made so much progress collectively as a society, with exceptions proving the rule, that such comments, derogatory or demeaning language in general, don’t usually show up that much in daily conversation and shouldn’t overall. Then again, my view is likely skewed because I’m barely around men and most people I am around are also very much left-leaning just like I am, so the language we use is very considerate and thought out, if that makes sense.
Now that I talk of it, a thing that’s been grinding my gears recently is that so many people on here seem to be ok with using the r-word in regular conversation. “R-word” this and “that’s so r-word of you” that - like, why? It’s just so unnecessary. Same goes for the f-word (gay slur). I thought we’ve been past this already?
That bothers me too. Unlike some of the nonsense that’s becoming common here lately, the R-word slurs have been going on since before the past few waves of Redditors arrived - it’s homegrown ableism farmed right here on Lemmy.
I appreciate all the rest of your comment too. I am on a short break at work and can’t respond to all of it, but I will wanted to say that I’m glad to hear your input.
No worries. Much love 💜
High beam switch on the floor is superior to all other high beam arrangements. Got a '98 truck and have seriously considered putting it there, shouldn’t be that hard to do.
Why call radio button
What about high beamers
Radio buttons are named after the physical buttons that were used on old radios to select preset stations.[3][2] When one of the buttons is pressed, the other buttons pop out while leaving the pressed one pushed in.
From wiki
TIL! I’m a dev so I know what they’re called but I never bothered to check why that is