Pretty much title, I’ve got a formal wedding to go to in October and I’m not a formal person. Can I wear these docs without looking like a jerk

  • iamericandre@lemmy.worldOPEnglish
    3·
    2 months ago

    Says tux preferred but black suit is ok too. I’m a little annoyed here because I have to buy a new suit since I never really attend formal events.

    • dustyData@lemmy.worldEnglish
      2·
      2 months ago

      My rule was, if I am attending an event rarely in my life, then rental is more appropriate. But semi frequent, like one event a year, buy a black suit. It doesn’t hurt to have, and also a blue navy blazer for semi formal events were you have dress up but it is not tux formal. A black suit can be made very formal with white shirt, tie and loafers. Or more informal with fun shirts and more fashion shoes for other big events. A well tailored suit is a powerful item in the wordrobe.

    • BenchpressMuyDebilEnglish
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      2 months ago

      Oh if it’s a tux (as in, not “suit” but actual tuxedo) then you can’t really do loafers. I think the only option that makes sense here is black cap toe oxford.

        • Droggelbecher@lemmy.worldEnglish
          3·
          2 months ago

          Still, go for oxfords. Don’t have to be cap toe. Make sure they’re not brogue. People probably wouldn’t bat an eye at derbys either, but oxfords are best. ‘Black suit or tux’ really isn’t a dress code that allows for any loafers whatsoever. If it HAS to be one of the two pairs you posted, go for the ones with no contrast yellow stitching, as they’ll at least draw less negative attention (but likely still some, since they specifically stated a dress code like this).

          • noodles@slrpnk.netEnglish
            1·
            2 months ago

            Not technically loafers but opera pumps would also be appropriate–though a big statement these days–with a tuxedo, if OP is determined to have slip ons