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That’s hopeful thinking.

In this particular article it horrid this woman was raped and had to endure that violation. I’m don’t understand why the decided to commit suicide and leave three small children behind.

Everyone is a mod there

Tildes is not a Reddit alternative, it’s got its own thing going. talklittle has been a member there for quite some time and so it makes sense. It’s not for everyone, but I appreciate it.

Agreed. OP can just say, “Having kids isn’t for me.” And that’s cool, we accept that. It sounds a bit like trying to justify the choice to themselves or at the very least help other be ok with the decision to not have kids. The pet analogy is over simplified. One thing I will say is that having kids of your own vs being around someone else’s is very different. Being there through the grow and maturity into a functional human is the reward and frankyly it goes super fast. It felt like.yeaterday I was holding my kids as newborns and now they are in high school. The journey is the experience .To each their own on their choices.