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Cake day: July 15th, 2023

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  • I’m going to throw this idea into the mix. It’s how I’d handle the situation and it’s generally worked pretty well for me. Ideally you’d send a message like this when your friend is online and playing but it really doesn’t matter when you send it.

    “Hey mate, just noticed you and x and y are online. Mind if I jump in for a bit? Be great to have a game or two”

    Nice and relaxed, no pressure, no coming off as needy. There’s the possibility he’ll say it’s not the right time or they’re working on something together - that’s fine too, at least you know why. If you join in just play a game or two unless you really feel your gelling with them. Whether you stick around or drop out follow it up with.

    “Good game guys, thanks for letting me drop in.”

    The next time they’re online it’ll be easier for them to include you or you to ask to be in again.