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  • You’re fine. Live your life. Things will change. Sometimes they will change radically. It’s unavoidable because that’s life. As someone who has been married much longer than you’ve been alive (writing that hurt) my advice is this: if you are best friends, then it’s a perfect match. Stay best friends. Do everything in your power to remain best friends. Build each other up. Never tear each other down. Make each other better. Grow together.

    Maybe it won’t work for any of a literally infinite number of reasons. Who cares? If you are best friends now then there is no reason to second guess. How far it goes and how well it goes is dependent first on the two of you and secondly on infinity. One of those you have power over, the other you don’t and so isn’t worth worrying about.