I do not really have an opinion on the banner thing.

Honestly, a post every day might be a bit excessive. But regular posting, enough to prove to someone who is just browsing the community that their comments or posts will probably be seen and engaged with by another human being at some point, is a good idea.

I personally don’t mind posting in places where someone else seems to have made posting anything relevant their personal job, but it is a bit intimidating. I never really thought of it this way, but I just realized that also too many posts from one user in a short span of time can make a user worry their own post would get drowned out.

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I actually super don’t.

You look different from me therefore you BAD and EVIL. You acceptable target for hurting because my group said so. Even though you never hurt me.

I’ve never suffered from racism, misogyny, or queer bashing. I am very very lucky especially given I am a queer woman of color. I know just how bad other people have it. We can at least partially thank tribalism for those peoples’ suffering.

No worries! Discussions of AI feel like too serious a topic, too hot-button for me to feel great discussing online so I got wary. Thank you for clarifying

I’ll be honest, not sure why I specifically am being replied to with this. I don’t think I talked about how easy or hard it is to recognize AI content in the comment, or about whether it should be filtered out or not.

I do think you correctly assumed that I am very much not a fan of AI content when someone is trying to pass it as their own effort (I am guessing expressing appreciation for the user marking AI-generated content as such tipped you off?).

I have managed to actively avoid politics during my time here, although on most servers it does require ignoring Local and always ignoring All—far too many communities to block. ani.social has a very safe Local to check for avoiding politics, it’s just anime and manga.

Because it’s not just explicitly political communities that are chock-full of politics, they are also in meme communities. Someone posts some depressing “relatable” meme and the comments will have people saying “yeah I hate [politician they believe caused the depressing thing in the meme]” or something like that. Whether they have a point or not, and even when I outright agree wholeheartedly it is exhausting. Certain communities post news about their specific topic which sometimes intersects with politics and so that attracts political comments too.

But I can say with the active political avoidance tactic I do pretty good. I will check out new communities via !newcommunities@lemmy.world and sometimes check an instance’s community list and browse random posts on a community that mildly interested me, that is how I still get content discovery.

Also, the problem is the number of users. Neurodivergence is, as far as I know, not the statistical majority. Finding 1 neurodivergent in 100 people is a lot easier than 1 neurodivergent people in 3. I’m neurodivergent, I also stick to the things I’m interested in here. So I am probably a lot harder to find unless you share my interests.

It sure would be nice to have a different upvote/downvote culture. Not sure how to foster that.

Upvote for helpful, funny, otherwise valuable contribution.

Downvote for incivility, spam, off-topic, incorrect.

Note I never said agree or disagree. I upvote a lot of things I disagree with that add to the conversation. Although I also admit I stay far, far away from any political or serious discussion. I think what I am proposing is literally just original Reddiquette (it still is that, it is just that a lot of people do not follow it).

I do not think I can add anything to the upvote/downvote conversation for your specific post that the users have not already said on it. But I do appreciate you clearly marking off AI-generated content as such, and you putting effort into the community.

!ShortFormVideos is what I instantly thought. !ShortFormShares feels less formal. As an idiot, I might click thinking you are talking about the stock market, but once I saw a bunch of videos in the community it would be obvious to me what it’s about

Hey, thanks for the advice! I’ll try to implement it when I can—some posts lend themselves better to images than others.

I admit I’m one of the wanderers. I pop in via Local from time to time because sometimes there is cool stuff, but I’m not subbed because otherwise stuff I’m not interested in would overwhelm my feed. A quick skim via checking in from time to time or Local works better for me.

I see you as a mod a lot around Lemmy. Thanks for your work!

Post images instead of text

I wanted to keep !otomegames@ani.social discussion-focused instead of just imagespam of otome game characters. I’m not budging on that but given this is the advice for growth, oof for potential growth. I do welcome memes about otome games, but just reposting someone else’s fanart is against the rules. Posting your own is welcome.

One thing I always wanted more of out of anime/manga communities on Reddit was more discussion, less fanart I could easily find by just going on Pixiv—but each community was almost always imagespam.

I guess this puts me in the minority :(

On the other hand, Reddit’s r/otomegames is the same way, there is more discussion than imagespam, so there is hope.

Knowledgeable people using their knowledge to fuck around is always entertaining to watch, both if you have zero knowledge about the thing and if you have expert knowledge about the thing.

!otomegames@ani.social has now acquired an icon that fits in with the rest of the instance—it’s an anime picture! Still have to get going on the backup instance.

The weekly What are you playing posts tend to get at least some engagement nowadays.

I fixed up the OtomeGamesBot to post them for me, which I correctly marked as a bot account.

One upvote and nothing else.

I also recall it being possible to prevent bot posts from being shown to you. (Settings > uncheck Show Bot Accounts)

I’ll let the bot post again two more weeks, and if the posts continue getting less engagement than I’m used to seeing I’ll probably need to go back to posting them on my account instead.

r/otomegames has it so advertisements for other communities are all relegated to a Self-Promotion Sunday thread that nobody looks at.

I did reach out to the mods to ask if they’d be willing to do anything for this, they’re not interested on moderating off of Reddit or putting this in the sidebar, so very slow organic growth it is…

I do exist on otome Discords and I talk there way more than I self-promote, but I have promoted this there and I don’t think anyone has bitten yet. ;-;

I actually don’t remember what taught me about Lemmy and Kbin’s existence. I know it was over the API exodus, but not sure if it was a news article or a Reddit thread. It definitely wasn’t someone DMing me to join, I would have taken that as spammy and annoyingly promotional and rejected it instantly. Bringing this up because if we want to grow the Fediverse it’s probably worth thinking about what got us to move, and what let us even know it was an option.

Pleased that !otomegames@ani.social gained what looks like another active participant :)

Lots of downvotes on a recent post on !otomegames@ani.social that regular commenters engaged with happily, so I’m wondering if it’s just people seeing it on local and disliking it as typical mainstream social media fodder, or if it’s subscribers who don’t comment not liking it, or both. Remember all those “which pill would you take” and then there’s a couple different-color pills giving you different superpowers? It was something like that, but on-topic for otome games. Kind of bewildered by that.

Have looked at other Fedi instances including Mbin for backups, didn’t find one that was just centered on games. Guess it’ll probably be lemmy.zip.

You should probably tell !touhou@lemmy.world and !touhou@ani.social.

This is terrible for artist exposure but great for keeping my hands free of Facebook: I usually click and enlarge the image on Lemmy without ever touching the source link. But I do appreciate you attributing the source when the picture is not something you shot, I always thought that was appropriate netiquette. I link the source myself if I’m posting something I did not make. If it’s on some undesirable place like Facebook I add in a little “link goes to Facebook” warning if it isn’t just a plain URL where you can literally read the link is on Facebook.

Even if you don’t have an account, you may interact with or use Meta Products… We also receive information using cookies and similar technologies, like the Meta Pixel or Social Plugins, when you visit other websites and apps that use our Business Tools or other Meta Products.

—https://www.facebook.com/privacy/policy?annotations[0]=1.ex.41-InformationWeCollectIf

So even though I don’t have an account myself, so many non-Facebook sites use their business tools, have that tracking Meta Pixel embedded that they have my data anyways. I am aware you might say “then why worry about going to their site, they have stuff on you anyways,” I don’t want to give them more and it is the principle of the thing. I’m not helping them by being another of your 300 friends on Facebook so you feel a tiny bit of additional pressure to give in and get one to stay in touch with people. This is probably why people don’t want to be infected with Facebook cooties.

One way I look at it, and that you might want to advise these people to look at it, is that they benefit from our data without paying us a cent. We benefit back by having you use their hosting to store the cute owl image so we can see it for free on Lemmy without having to go to their website. I remember storms being made about hotlinking awhile ago on the internet. Wikipedia says it’s also sometimes known as “bandwidth theft” or “leeching”. I am not an “eye for an eye” type but Facebook is a huge corporation, not a human being with feelings or human rights. Facebook leeches my data, I encourage people to leech their bandwidth :)

A lot of communities I participate in are thankfully drama-free but it is hard for me to forget there are mods because the person providing a lot of the content usually has a little M for Moderator next to their name ;-; I’m glad yours has enough participants that I assume that does not happen

I have noticed that the otome creators who are on the Fediverse are on Mastodon. I’m not going to give up on !otomegames@ani.social, I prefer threaded discussion to microblogging, especially because threaded discussion allows more characters per post. But I figure if I want to help grow otome on Fedi and show there are interested gamers here, maybe attract some otome players to post here instead of r/otomegames, maybe I should go where there are people. (And try to get them to post on !otomegames@ani.social!) I love r/otomegames, nice bunch of people, no hate, it is just… well… on Reddit. I came to Fedi to get off of Reddit. I applied on https://mstdn.games and am waiting for approval.

Still very grateful for the one person who is not me who makes posts on !otomegames@ani.social, they have their own communities that are pretty cool too! Check out theirs at !renpy@discuss.tchncs.de

I like to promote topic-specific instances so also !anime@ani.social

!otomegames@ani.social !touhou@lemmy.world !visualnovels@lemmy.comfysnug.space (lemmy.comfysnug.space) !visualnovels@ani.social