Trying2KnowMyself [they/them, comrade/them]

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Cake day: January 20th, 2024

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  • Here’s how I read: your personal ethics/politics are innate rather than learned from your family --> social context plays a minimal role in people’s choices

    Sorry - that wasn’t clear - there’s plenty of ways I think my upbringing has impacted who I am and that there are ways I’m still fighting to break out of that mould. I don’t know what exactly helped me escape it here. Maybe it had more impact than I recognize and I just don’t realize it. I don’t think my personal ethics/politics were entirely innate, I think I’ve grown from a place that was more heavily influenced from my upbringing but believing (perhaps incorrectly) that the growth has largely come just from seeing the results of my upbringing in action.

    I’m struggling to make sense of how someone can find themselves a willing participant in genocide and perhaps hoping that there’s an innate part of me that would be sensible enough to not end up there that might not be real. I struggle with knowing that I can/should be doing more than I do, while also not feeling like I actually have the spoons for it.

    Sorry, I still don’t think this is really an answer.

    E: to replace ableism



  • One of my replies elsewhere feels particularly applicable here:

    Far too many aren’t even getting to the point of weighing whether it’s worse to commit genocide or go to jail - just skip straight to i-love-killing-people

    I don’t doubt that “nurture” plays a role in who you become as a person, but there’s nobody in my family I can point to and say they’ve had a truly formative effect on my politics from a stance of agreement. They told me that I should care about the wellbeing of other people, sure, but it’s not like anyone actually demonstrated that in a meaningful way.

    he was upset about having lost friends in battle, not about whatever crimes he and his friends had committed

    I was thinking about this earlier too, but never posted the reply - I’m curious what percentage of the suicides come from the pain of realizing that it’s wrong to murder babies vs trauma that’s not driven by the actions they took.