Weevil Friend

That’s a great idea! I’m glad that’s working for you :)

Are there specific people you find end up being the recipients of your frustration? I did a lot of lashing out on undeserved people and I can talk about that if that’s helpful!

Can I ask what the triggers are? I’ve always struggled with this but about two years ago I had a big stroke that made things a lot worse. I’ve been taking a systematic kind of approach to making a system to counteract triggers that I might encounter. Maybe if I know the things that are getting to you or causing the emotions you’re struggling with I can help! DMs are also open

How is Vader cool? I’m asking this as someone who knows nothing about Star Wars I just thought he was supposed to be space Hitler.

That’s a good way of putting it! I normally act without regard for perceptions of masculinity or femininity and I feel like that’s appealing for couples looking for a third.

For me it’s happened twice overtly and I suspect once that didn’t become an explicit request. I’m vocally monogamous, I’m not very social, and I’m still kinda young so I feel like those numbers are pretty high. For me I feel like it’s how I present myself and act, which is pretty stereotypically “queer.” Once that gets picked up on by other couples I think they seem more interested.

To be completely honest I sought out a Lemmy frontend specifically because I wanted to tag you lol

No it’s just a lot of blood relatives in there it seems

Not legal children, I meant children of other members of the community. Not overt pedophilia, just weird bordering incest that I understand people being averse to.

https://lemmy.world/post/14925178

They say they aren’t letting blood relatives have sex but I would still feel odd belonging to a relationship with my dad and sister where everyone is having sex with all of us.

I feel like downvotes kinda make sense given that they said group has a lot of parents/children and siblings. I don’t even know if this is bait or not.

It’s one of those things that doesn’t hurt anyone. If you’re not completely sure they’re into it, follow them whenever they leave. A lot of times they try to pick up pace but that’s cuz they’re excited to lead you home so make sure you speed up too! (Genuinely terrified of anyone taking this seriously so just a little disclaimer)

I got mine off of redbubble. I couldn’t find the original artist at the time, so it was probably stolen art to be completely honest. Maybe you could reverse image search and find it? That was something I didn’t know how to do at the time.

As for finding a partner who appreciates it, I think the best thing to do is go up to anyone of your preferred gender or presentation and say seductive phrases such as “let’s see that smile” or “where’s my hug?”

I feel morally obligated to say that I have a t-shirt with this on it and it scored me my boyfriend of over five years that I fully intend to spend the rest of my life with

Thank you!! I haven’t noticed any weevil communities yet but I’m in as many bug groups as I can find lol

I normally find turtle chips in international markets where I live! (Mid-Atlantic United States)

I’ve found my trans friends through school and through friends I already have! But if you want, I always love to have more friends :)

I have all of those games but I don’t have as much free time as I used to. Lemme know if you wanna talk!

This isn’t an argument, this is just me trying to understand. I feel there are accessibility features that allow artists to create art in spite of their disabilities. Even if the artist is blind, there are many forms of art they can pursue to express themselves. In my mind, AI only takes a prompt and imitates existing art, making a dishonest representation. I feel like if you have terrible drawing skills, making beautiful art by having software you didn’t design recreate art from examples you didn’t make without the artists’ permission means it isn’t your art.

I’ve never actually heard arguments about AI art being a good thing! Could you explain your perspective?