i find this very satisfying: gently disagreeing with them via a short single positive message like “gay people do deserve respect”, then letting them throw a very lengthy, time-invested tantrum before gently and completely disagreeing with their comment with another short sentence, over and over until they get tired.

i find that both very funny and I’m putting out positive messages that negate their bigotry without too much time or effort.

that’s just if you have the time and inclination to engage, you aren’t morally obligated to subject yourself to abusive behavior.

if it’s real bad, they’re probably violating a rule, and reporting them will get them banned

hated that work culture so i left as soon as the opportunity presented itself.

went to teach ESL. half the hours for better pay

i travel constantly, and every time I’m flying in a plane i am re-amazed.

i think about how easy and quick it is to fly anywhere in the world and I’m sitting in a bit metal tube floating in the air.

it’s bananas.

I see what you mean now.

I thought you were mainly concerned about shipping things from the US, which neither I nor anyone I’ve known has had intercepted or interfered with en route to dozens of countries, frequently containing valuables. It must happen, but it seems very rare.

The other way though, if you’re sending packages to the US from other countries, you could have that problem occasionally, which I have experienced twice and heard of from other travelers shipping things to the US.

As far as I know, that’s a one-way problem, US-tagged packages seem to slip through sticky fingers.

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Kino’s Journey(2003) - great fix for philosophy and drifty, travel vibes.

I make my own DIY huaraches like this:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P1FrEgeP9jI

extremely comfortable, you can make it with any old slipper lying around and some paracord, lasts for 6 months to a year, depending on the quality of the sandal base.

adjust it to exactly your size that fits perfectly and then you can sew the knots so that all the dimensions stay the same.

takes me maybe 5 minutes to make each pair, and then 5 minutes for the sewing of the knots so I never have to readjust them, costs nearly nothing.

every story I’ve heard about them sounds like yours.

ESL industry is always looking for native speakers to teach English, for your back pocket.

his post is factually incorrect, of course.

https://adcare.com/addiction-demographics/homeless-population/

“homeless” is a term used to describe someone who does not live inside a domicile, 40-60% of all homeless people have and hold down jobs.

travel podcast:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bit-of-a-rambler/id1804692516

sorry about the aliens.

Lemmy is a much nicer environment overall, so i moved here

wow that is crazy, your dad’s actions were crazy I mean, I’m glad to hear you came out to him and severed that tie.

“Parents have no hold over you, not really. If they don’t deserve your presence, don’t allow it.”

can’t agree more with you here.

sorry to hear that.

you certainly don’t have to travel if you dont want to, I just like people being aware of the option, but I’m not following one thing:

How does disagreeing with and being alienated from your family make traveling less of an option for you?

people usually ship their belongings by sea or air(ocean freight is cheaper and slower, but I’m not sure by how much with Costa Rica being so near) with a company like DHL, I’ve used them and found them to be a reliable international shipping company, FedEx and UPS are also options.

I wouldn’t worry about customs taking your stuff, especially if you have insurance or tracking or anything like that on the ticket, and especially with a wealthier country like Costa Rica where paper trails are more important.

I’ve actually never heard of customs taking anything legal in real life from anyone who’s shipped belongings overseas(my friend’s yak jerky got confiscated because it’s illegal to import a lot of international meat products into the US) so I personally don’t believe customs pocketing things is very common.

Legos aren’t apparently valuable on their face and with the paper trail of receipts/documents I wouldn’t think you have to worry about anything getting lifted by customs. plus, if you add some fragile notices and insurance on there the agents responsible for transporting the packages will be a lot more careful, for sure.

“…that molten glass was involved…”

yeaj, the process you actually go through is even more impressive than the already incredibly difficult fantasia-sequence molten glass process I imagined, haha!

creating a 40 piece picture frame or 60 piece or whatever it is, jeez, that is very cool, and to get it so smooth.

the podcast is called “bit of a rambler”, it’s everywhere podcasts are, main page here: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/bit-of-a-rambler--6571124

the first two episodes are out and new eps will be coming out every Wednesday for a long time to come, travel stories and information.

those paints came out great, very vibrant colors, and the car polish you added is such a smart idea, they’ll probably look that way forever.

the nail polish in UV lamp are another good idea, what’s on hand is the way to go, I ended up using strips of old pool noodles lying around as sound insulation for the office I record the podcast in just the other day.

I’ll be on the lookout for whatever you post here next. or I’ll remember you from Lemmy when your YT shorts blow up!

“…she is a true inspiration.”

wow, what a stellar gift, and something that you can throw your appreciation for her into.

do you have a finished picture of the “we can do it” piece you can share?

haha, i remember soldering headphone wires for the first time and ending up with a crazy lumpy Boulder of solder and burnt wires by the end.

to which, of course, I shrugged and rolled electrical tape around and accepted.

living outside the country good buddy

yup, it’s called the Schengen area:

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schengen_Area

you do not have to be rich to live in Europe, Europe is much cheaper than the states, especially in the situation you’re describing as a long-term traveler.