

There’s something funny about posting that to lemmy and not mentioning lemmy as a Reddit alternative.


This is called an identity first workflow and is used specifically so that they can route different people to different login ceremonies or providers.
They get your id first, and use that id to determine what your login ceremony is. Perhaps you’re with a business that they have an sso integration with and will send you on to your businesses sso provider, or perhaps you’re a local user for them and get a password screen next.


Go to a doctor. They’re good for this kind of stuff, better than the Internet even.
Once you’ve seen a doctor to get clarity on your lump, you might consider checking out a therapist too. Therapy can be very healing if you get a good therapist, and is totally worth it.
You’re probably right
Judging by the reaction apparently this was unsanctioned corn posting… :(
It isn’t always peaceful like that, but I’m grateful that has been your experience.


Post pardum is real and can have tremendous lasting impacts on mental health. It’s easy and natural for all of the attention to be on the baby, but it’s critical to keep an eye out for each other here too. If you or your spouse are getting overwhelmed, get some help, and consider therapy quickly.
I audibly gasped. You should really consider an nsfl tag.
Ok but one is clearly superior.


Great plan, change what we’re talking about and point at other things energetically to hide your foolishness. Everyone’s gonna buy it.


They didn’t get upset, and they didn’t ask that it not be posted. They asked that it be tagged.
It’s common courtesy and lets people know what they can and cannot safely click into in more public settings.
It has nothing to do with some puritanical decay of society.


The most value for society created by Bitcoin yet.
So this is or isn’t mansplaining?


New grass type just dropped
Do it! I work in the industry and have found it to be very effective in conversations spanning varying levels of technical expertise.