Just be yourself, and stop giving a fuck what others think. I mean, be realistic, and be prepared to protect yourself from the innumerable assholes out there. There’s always gonna be assholes of some type of another. They’ll make up a reason to hate on you if they have to, so it doesn’t really much matter in the end. I’d rather be myself than live in fear, constantly trying to guess how best not to trigger the assholes.