• xpey@piefed.social
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    1 hour ago

    50/50, maybe?

    I like my ideal world where no one expects anything from anyone when it comes to clothes and appearance, but I also like to figure out my (very extra) outfit of the day from time to time

  • DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works
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    I mean, doesn’t every sort-of dress for others?

    I mean, that’s why its illegal to go outside unclothed.

    For me, its mostly just to fit in, meet the legal and social requirements of being in public, and, well… for winter… since humans have no fur. So a bit of both, but as long as I meet minimum requirements its fine.

    Comfort > Looks

    I mean, I’m not a high ranking politician, who care how good I look.

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    Feel like I’m in between.

    I usually wear simple, single color Tshirts, a light jacket, and one of a small stock of pants.

    In a sense I dress just for me - easy and simple means I don’t have to spend time choosing, which I do like. A light jacket let’s me easily get warmer or cooler without having to completely change.

    In another, I dress for others - I don’t wear graphic tees very much since high school because I don’t want anyone judging me for what I like, or misunderstanding and prejudging me. With plain tees, I just don’t have to deal with that particular social anxiety.

  • Boozilla@lemmy.world
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    2 hours ago

    Comfortable clothes for myself. I’m pretty much invisible to most other people, which is fine with me.

  • Lexam@lemmy.world
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    3 hours ago

    I’m autistic, I dress for myself and my comfort. I actually dress nice however. My wardrobe mostly consists of button ups and pollos. I have t shirts but only wear those when I’m doing something physical like working on the house. If I’m at home I’m probably in a pair of my colorful sweats and a hoodie.

  • neidu3@sh.itjust.works
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    5 hours ago

    Function over form every day all day. Duck others.
    I’ve been a jeans and T-shirt guy for well over 30 years at this point.

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    7 hours ago

    The only reason I put pants on is because it’s be arrested otherwise.

    That being said, comfortable has priority over good looking and I don’t think I’ve ever had a compliment on how I dress since grandma saw me in a suit when I graduated 20 something years ago.

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    5 hours ago

    It’s definitely a mix. I’m not a stylish person, but I find I get the most compliments when I’m wearing things I love.

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    I wanted to say that I don’t dress for anyone because I mostly lie naked in bed because pulling trousers up is too hard for me.

    But then I realised when I have to get up I put on a bathrobe so that my kids don’t have to see me naked.

    So, I do dress for others.

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    8 hours ago

    For others. If I’m staying home, I dress like I’m homeless in whatever grungy dirty things that already need washing. If I’m going out, my hair is combed, my threads are fresh and I’m not getting denied entrance to the restaurant. The movie Blast from the Past was pretty stupid, but it did teach me (remind me?) that you dress nice as a courtesy to your friends.

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    8 hours ago

    I 100% dress for others, I don’t really care about clothing, and I hate to buy new clothes. I only do it because I think I may be nearing some limit of what is considered decent to wear in the presence of other people, who 100% always are better dressed than me.

    The other day I was at the supermarket, and had seen they had a special offer on “plaice” I think it’s called.
    Well the special offer was sold out, and I asked an employee if they had anymore.
    The employee was extremely nice, and asked how many I had planned to buy? And I said 2, then he took 2 bags that had 50% more content, and wrote the price of the special offer on them, and said I should just mention his name at the register.
    I though Wow that stellar service, and it was only when I came home I realized I had some of my worst pants on that are so warn they had holes in them.
    I have newer pants, but I don’t like them, because they have no sway and they are some sort of stretch material to be tight, and I absolutely hate that. And I also hate shopping for clothes.

    Anyways because my clothes are (to put it mildly) sub par for normal people, I figured he probably thought I was some sort of destitute.

    I am married, and our economy is absolutely fine, we own an almost paid out house, and we have a car that was bought cash without borrowing, and we have a good amount of money in the bank.

    Anyways I don’t care, maybe because I don’t have to. I just want clothes that are comfortable.

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    9 hours ago

    I have more important things to worry about than clothes. Nobody cares what I wear, and frankly neither do I.

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    8 hours ago

    For both. I wear cheap business casual to work to present a particular image: appear like I have my shit together (I don’t) but I’m also budget conscious. I wear the same outfit every day (for me) because I hate making fashion decisions and crave simplicity. I have five of the same shirt and five of the same pant. Weekends I have a different uniform that says “fit, economical, comfortable, safe.” Two of the same pant and shirt.

  • WeirdGoesPro@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    7 hours ago

    I dress for myself. I like being memorable and looking good. I like taking style risks sometimes, but it seems to work for me.

    I get complimented on my style often, and that makes me feel more confident in general.

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    8 hours ago

    Myself – I opt for the low decision fatigue – same thing everyday wardrobe.

    If I wasn’t a bachelor remote employee I might consider mixing it up on the behalf of others. Right now when I do quarterly on-sites I stick with my usual wardrobe.