As a very attractive man, I will say that perhaps in some ways being good looking brings favor, but in the meaningful ways, it often brings judgment and scorn. The biggest false belief of course, is that if you’re a good looking man, you must be a complete misogynist and womanizer. Or just an asshole. So often I have to diffuse the anticipation that I’m walking in as some giant arrogant prick and I’m just not. It’s exhausting dealing with that.

So I might get an extra helping of fries in the bag from a cute server, but it makes day to day life interacting with other people very difficult at times. It’s possible to be a very good person and good looking, the two really don’t have anything to do with each other, but most people don’t intuit that.

Oh, and it’s also exhausting not being able to have normal relationships with women, cuz they almost always have the goo goo eyes. It’s not all it’s cracked up to be.