• IWantToFuckSpez@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    Yes we simple. But we need clear signs to be sure that she’s into a man or just being friendly. A smile and say hi and talking about what excites them is what very outgoing women do out of friendliness and is not a sign of attractiveness.

    • LemmyKnowsBest@lemmy.worldOP
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      1 year ago

      I know what you mean. Once every couple years I happen to be in a talkative outgoing mood and people think I’m flirting with them. But I’m not.

      Anyway that mood only lasts for a couple hours. And it happens once every couple years. I can’t predict it and I can’t plan it and I can’t control it, and I can’t even shift that charm to work on people I actually want it to work on.

      Because unfortunately when I’m attracted to someone I get cripplingly shy and I can’t even look at them or talk to them.