• irmoz@reddthat.com
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    1 year ago

    This is a devastating self report

    I said and implied nothing about my thoughts or feelings.

    People are more complicated than their bodies

    Thanks for stating the obvious.

    I guess being conventionally attractive is enough to be happy from your PoV.

    Nope. I never even mentioned happiness. This is a conversation about attraction. Self-esteem in this context means body-image.

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      This is a conversation about attraction. Self-esteem in this context means body-image.

      It absolutely is not, but you are reducing it to that. Read what OP is saying, she is looking for a relationship but is having trouble iniaiting. I mean come on, she calls herself beautiful, yet somehow you read shy as body image thing? That’s just looking skin deep.

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        It absolutely is not, but you are reducing it to that.

        Literally the first 4 words of the post:

        I’m a beautiful woman.

        I’m not reading between the lines, I’m reading the words themselves. Don’t call me shallow just because I’m not trying to do SCUBA in a puddle.