• FARTYSHARTBLAST@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Just be straightforward: Avoid hinting, speak plainly. I can’t speak for all guys, but I’m terrible at picking up on hints.

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      1 year ago

      Tell me about it. There were so many more opportunities, but I figured I was being a gentlemen. I was just obtuse.

      My wife and I hooked up a bit freshmen year in college and then drifted. She later pursued me. Her explanations about how oblivious I was that she wanted to come over and sleep with me are mind boggling in retrospect.