Dear linux users. Is it a red flag if she is active in a Catholic Dating group?
Edit:. and that she is still on reddit?
The ‘she’ part works for me!
Why would they need to date anyway? That’s just questioning God’s Plan for them.
It’s God’s way of training them for their true partner. Free will and all that. Now kisth.
God works in mysterious ways. Maybe their one and only, doesnt even use an iphone!
Yes. We only accept our true gods and leaders here: Linus, Richard, Tux and Xenia.
You mean Xena, right?
Oh. TIL. This fox is cute as well :)
Blazing red flag.
Run
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Ooh, I’m a cash cow apparently.
But seriously, are there really women who talk about men in those terms?
But seriously, are there really women who talk about men in those terms?
Yes. Personally, I see it as the mirror image of the “tradwife” thing where toxic men see their partner as a subservient maid. Seeing men as primarily an income source comes from a similar place imho.
These two groups deserve each other.
Yep, they’ve been called ‘gold diggers’, for quite a while now.
There is still a huge portion of American women across the political spectrum, across wealth classes, across religious or irreligious beliefs, who ultimately have a huge part of what they want in a partner be ‘how much stuff can he buy me’, who will bully or shame or guilt trip or emasculate or outright violently abuse their male partner, regardless of how hypocritical this is with their other espoused beliefs, to get them to pay for things for them or cover their debts.
Just get on tiktok or instagram, you basically can’t miss it.
Its more than just the opposite number of conservative tradwives. There are plenty of self described liberal or leftist, feminists or social activists of one kind or another that ultimately still want their male partners to provide far more for them than they provide for their partner.
That sounds like 99.9% of population in developing countries like mine
I don’t think that’s a fair comparison as Nerd is usually seen as a negative trait, where having good traditional traits is seen as a positive.
It’s taking a nerd and using that negativity despite not liking it to exploit gain.
Where as having traditional wife is choose a positive because you like that positive.
If I can’t be a milk cow, then at least let me be a cash cow
You have never opened the box of “Female Dating Strategy”. Welcome to the world of “low value males”
Just looked through some of that stuff. Holy hell, it would be easier to be seen as without sin through the eyes of an angry old testament God than it would be to be seen as worthy of dating from that crowd. And that’s fine, because I would want less than zero to do with it.
(Assuming it’s real. Who knows? Could be a bunch of neckbeards cosplaying, but if I’ve learned anything in life, it’s that there are shitty shitty men in this world, and that there are equally shitty shitty women in this world)
Aww yea. Sounds like some rough femcel horse shit right there.
It exists?
The “trad wives” (traditionalist / paleoconservative middle class women who believe that their religion is good for women) are looking for a husband in the traditional sense, a type of business owner / patriarch who owns them and provides for them; see: husbandry. That’s so that they can produce a lot of offspring while pretending that raising kids in near or full homeschooling is a good thing and she’s very successful (culturally).
They’re the homologues of incels and traditionalist bros who want to be rich so that they maintain some informal harem. And they deserve each other.
Yeah, and we shouldn’t suppose women can’t degrade as much as men, that’s unfair. r/femaledatingstrategy had an overblown fame for being a femcel den before it got banned, you can read on them in the media. But you can discover more than that on chan-boards, as they are probably the origin of a lingvo natural to this discourse. Just like with in incels, there’s a typology of women and men adapted to biological and social context a typical ciswoman is in.
As for IRL, I’ve heard such terms only as a joke, but that means there’s some penetration into higher net.
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You have been sleepwalking through life…
Idahoan here - yeah coming from a fairly mormon-laden family tree (and community), it’s pretty common around here. And like others said it typically goes both ways - the guys treat it like the gals are helpless without a man to carry the income. This place is fucking backwards and culturally prehistoric.
Don’t even get me started on the bigotry & maltreatment towards trans/gay folks. If there were a progress bar for moving toward healthy / compassionate behavior towards those groups this place would be at fucking 0%, genuinely. Obscenely disrespectful.
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Waifus don’t count to normies.
SpongeBob and Ariana Grande are exhibit A
Got a little queasy hearing someone describe their husband as a cash cow
Red flag behavior.
Wait until you see femaledatingstrategy then.
Would’ve thought FDS had been shut down by now after the grooming scandal.
OOTL, what grooming scandal?
Someone leaked their discord and there were a lot of instances of them discussing grooming as an avenue to creating their “perfect high value male” or whatever they called it.
Yikes :/
I didn’t even know about that they always come up with a new thing.
A good catholic man would use TempleOS
There is also UbuntuCE (Ubuntu Christian Edition)
I don’t want to Google that.
I am running linux already, when does the money flow in?
git cashout
git cash pop
Git my L1 cache filled
git blame
$ sudo apt install €$¥
You’re dowing it wrong!
Nerds fix stuff around the house? Girl, I couldn’t even repair that plumbing if I wanted to. This is a job for a professional.
Nerd here that was EXTREMELY disappointed in losing the opportunity to own a house.
I wanted to get into the home electronics/plumbing stuff. Although to be honest, I am less keen on the plumbing since it’s a wet mess.
We like to mix water and electricity anyway, like pipewire
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Still don’t get the name…
Oh, the wetness is far from the worst part.
Actually, some nerds are handy with electronics and stuff like that, myself included.
It could be even worse. Some needs enjoy to learn things, anything. Doesn’t,t matter if it’s NixOs or plastering.
Oh yeah, I love learning things. It doesn’t mean I love actually doing them.
This is me. Software developer by day, endless diyer and hobby starter by night (at least on nights when I’m not dissociating on the couch)
Let’s not monopolize the word nerds for us computer nerds. There are also engineering nerds for example, the guys that have 2 3d printers, 3 CNC machines, and a few industrial robot arms in their garage so that they can build the tiniest bike ever.
Nerds of all sciences unite!
It says a lot that when I read that my first thought was “oh so like keeping the self hosted services running and whatnot” for a second 😅
this would work on me tbh
Apparently, Catholic dating is all about money
Usually what they actually mean by “strong family values”
Found out the hard way to be honest…
Going on Reddit for dating advice is a mistake.
“Neckbeards unite! We have some advice to give!”
No way am I dating a Catholic. I will not be a “cash cow” for their weird religion.
Good providers, not lovers
These girls are old school. You make the money, they pump out the children. They don’t believe in birth control or abortion, so if you want to maximize your reproductive fitness, you could do worse than a Catholic girl.
No way am I dating a Catholic
There are a lot of hot Catholics.
There were hot nazi chicks, what’s your point?
Ok Stalin
???
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Dated a few of Catholics, and they aren’t any grosser than the Protestants, Atheists, Muslims, or Buddhists I’ve been with.
A few of them even are in your area.
If only I were able to click some sort of link to be able to meet with hot Catholics in my area. Oh well.
Don’t date him if he doesn’t run TempleOS.
Monster got him, failed run
I like my women like I like my distros. Stable.
Dangit, and here I am running arch btw
Might need some therapy
I can fix her
anyone who picks at every little thing a partner or potential partner does by requiring the Internet to approve it is toxic as hell. asking the Internet if a behavior that doesn’t effect you is a red flag is a massive red flag.
TBF, if a potential partner is super excited about something you never heard of, looking into it is a good thing.
Conservatives, and other assholes, are good about hiding their crazy behind seemingly innocent things, like pepe the frog.
Where are the leftist pepe fans at?
I misread that as “Where are the leftist Pope fans at?” and thought Europe, but then I realised my mistake.
But why would your question be “is this bad?” Just learn a little about it and decide for yourself.
i mean, it’s more about letting the Internet decide for them. a person that is so incapable of making their own assessments that they have to ask a random mob permission to date another isn’t going to be a good person to date. didn’t be or date someone that would trust random Internet weirdos who collectively have an incredibly awful track record of giving advice over just talking about it or doing some reading.
Judging by the name RungeKutta62, named after a class of numerical integration methods and thus two mathematicians, I’d say they’re a nerd themselves.
So what, that makes it OK to look at nerds that way?
Turns out, religious fundamentalists view men as providers and base large parts of their worth on how much money they make, whodathunk??
It means it was a joke
Hey, if women get to call discrimination on every little thing they just don’t like, so do I.
I saw this guy scream “FIRE!!!” in a packed room once. So I decided I get to do that also!!
Wait. Nerds being wanted in relationships is bad now? Lmfao. You nerds will never win. Wait. I’m one too? You are sure. Fuck.
It’s bad cuz we’re wanted for all the wrong reasons.
They are wanted for stability. I see you are framing it negatively though.
You didn’t read the cash cows part, did you…
Also lol at nerds automatically not cheating
They fail to realize that we are also human… not only that, but we’re undersexed humans.
What? Nah I was just thinking because most of the nerds I know have multiple partners.
You might wanna share some people from your contact list 😁.
It’s literally any alternative lifestyle community. I’ve never lived somewhere that didn’t have board game nights for the bdsm community. Lots of polyamory and nerdiness there
Not many of those where I live unfortunately.
undersexed
I learn a new word every day.
Yeah, I made that one up 😁.
The weird thing is, spell check didn’t underline it 🤔.
Yeah, I made that one up 😁.
All words are made up.
Hm, also true 👍.
Interesting
Yep, not what I thought it meant…
