• Jojo, Lady of the West@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    I’d just like to say that I’m not defining myself at any point, I’m describing myself.

    A trivial point, maybe, but there’s still plenty of bigots around and the ones around me use phrases like “defining yourself” to minimize and erase lbgtq+ people’s experiences.

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      3 months ago

      Identifying might be the best word to use, given the psychology literature all tends to use that, but thank you for your critique.

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        3 months ago

        And I’d just like to add: you’re right, this is the way the literature talks about it. You’d think the term being used clinically - with a clear, concise, and well-defined meaning - would mean it couldn’t be targeted and attacked the way it is by the religious right. You’d think, you’d hope, and you’d be wrong. And that sucks.

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        3 months ago

        Also heavily under fire, though the arguments are usually paper thin. They dismiss self-identification under the pretense that it’s not about identity, that your identity can’t be that you’re trans or whatever. Just a fiat argument.