SunlitSorceress@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 1 month agoPeople in their 40s and 50s with no children, how does it feel?message-squaremessage-square148fedilinkarrow-up1194arrow-down15
arrow-up1189arrow-down1message-squarePeople in their 40s and 50s with no children, how does it feel?SunlitSorceress@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.mlEnglish · 1 month agomessage-square148fedilink
minus-squareemogu@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·1 month agoAs someone who didn’t want kids and then had them later in life, your mind doesn’t really change until after you have them. That’s when I was like Oh At least that’s what it was like for me. Plenty of people’s minds never change even after kids sadly.
minus-squarezxqwas@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agoSeems unwise to take that risk. What if I don’t change my mind?
minus-squareemogu@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·1 month agoAbsolutely. Definitely not recommending chancing something like that haha. Just saying you might never change your mind and that’s ok. But also if a kid came into your life somehow, don’t panic! It might be ok
As someone who didn’t want kids and then had them later in life, your mind doesn’t really change until after you have them. That’s when I was like Oh
At least that’s what it was like for me. Plenty of people’s minds never change even after kids sadly.
Seems unwise to take that risk. What if I don’t change my mind?
Absolutely. Definitely not recommending chancing something like that haha. Just saying you might never change your mind and that’s ok. But also if a kid came into your life somehow, don’t panic! It might be ok