• Kilgore Trout@feddit.it
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      3 days ago

      I had the exact same conversation with mine, when I was 20.

      It’s hard to believe that you’ll have a better experience elsewhere, especially when you have already spent hundreds of € on that one.

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      3 days ago

      Lots of shit therapists out there.

      A friend of mine, his ex-wife’s therapist encouraged her to have an affair. An old highschool fling reached out to her, and she was essentially perpetually stuck in highschool due to some intense trauma around that age. Therapist said to go for it.

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        Always look at a potential spouse’s friends before getting married. Do they cheat, slack off, and just generally kind of suck? Your spouse-to-be will almost certainly follow their example. I say this because most people’s “therapist” are their friends and if their friends are maladjusted assholes you can probably expect more of the same.