Hello,

I could use an online friend who wants to help me focus on what’s most important in life.

I wasted most of my last 15 years. In last year or so, I lost +30kg, started hiking, physiotherapy, weightlifting, therapy, social dancing. My life changed twice. Second change was almost too good to be true.

My todos are related to

  1. health (discipline, routine, self care),
  2. relationships (facing my fear or what I avoid, choosing right person(s)) and
  3. financial life (adding value to land I own, choosing a business to focus on).

I’m in my early 30s, straight M, and I am usually in EU. I can probably visit you if you are in EU.

  • C A B B A G E@feddit.ukEnglish
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    1 day ago

    That’s an awesome set of improvements - well done!

    I can’t promise to be any use to you, but I’m glad to swap ideas about what the fuck to make of our 30s…

    • cabbage@piefed.socialEnglish
      4·
      1 day ago

      Sweet user name!

      More on topic, the 30s are messed up indeed. Or maybe it’s just that I’m now in my 30s and the world is fucked. In either case I’m not a big fan.

      • C A B B A G E@feddit.ukEnglish
        2·
        18 hours ago

        Thanks - same to you!

        I think it’s a combo of being a “real” adult, thinking about the implications of things going on in the world (on yourself and everyone else) and the world being a mess.

        Still, at least I’m old enough to be comfortable in my self (even if it’s anxious, unfit, and aching) and generally happy to just be.