I really never have believed times improved, and i am almost positive things will only get worse.

30 years ago we had a future to look to, the unshittified internet, great music, affordable land/housing, affordable durable cars, people actually interacted in real life, no social media trash. Now, we have billionaires and LLMs. I don’t see how anyone can possibly think times are better or going to improve.

Yes, everyone will say “civil rights improved” and yes thats maybe the only thing that has changed, however it’s getting taken away every day again so I don’t think you can even use that point anymore.

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    Medicine has improved by leaps and bounds. We have greater life expectancy and mostly a better quality of health along the way. Child mortality is down globally.

    https://ourworldindata.org/life-expectancy

    https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/child-mortality?time=1996..latest

    Improvements in our understanding of neurodivergent students has resulted in better educational and quality of life outcomes for millions who in past decades would have fallen through the cracks.

    The proliferation of environmental lead from paint and gasoline are WAY down, and the hole in the Ozone was just about peak in 1995.

    Open source, public domain, and freely available knowledge have democratized education, technology, research, and product development in ways that would have almost been inconcievable in 1995.

    We are able to communicate more globally, even with total strangers, often across language barriers, and for free.

    Video games, films, and television are able to create visions that would have been technically impossible 30 years ago. And technology has reduced the barriers for people to gain entry into those industries.

    I carry around a tiny super computer with instant access to all the world’s knowledge. That would have been a dream in 1995.

    There are of course many things that are worse. It’s a harder time to be starting out in life. “Luxuries” are dirt cheap and necesities are unaffordable. We’ve traded our sense of community for a paranioa of “others” even as the world has gotten safer. Globally the world has been swinging toward extremism and it constantly feels like capitalism may collapse and we don’t know what comes next if that happens. But failure to see how much is better and for how many seems like too much doom scrolling and too narrow and outlook.

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    Tech is better. But life is a lot worse in general. Unless you’re part of a marginalized group I suppose.

    We’ve gone from a bright shining future to no future at all.

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      Tech is better

      Tech was only better until like maybe 2015-2016. We’re a solid decade into enshitification across the board. I can’t even find a phone I actually want to replace mine that is finally failing after 8 years and the car situation isn’t looking much better, fortunately I don’t have to deal with that for a while (hopefully).

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      Unless you’re part of a marginalized group I suppose.

      This is a pretty dismissive take. “Sure, things have improved for the blacks and queers, but what about us… uh, regular folk?”

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        I mean, most of the people here didn’t mention it at all.

        Yes, it’s better to be gay in America in 2025 than 1995, although might not be trending in a good direction now. Probably black too, although that’s been a painfully slow process by comparison.

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          I don’t disagree, but OP didn’t ask for trend predictions. Anyone who tries to convince you “things” are worse today than than they were in 1995 is either trying to gaslight you, or doesn’t consider the experience of the LGBT community to be as equally valuable as everyone else.

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      I think a lot of the tech is responsible for the shitty life. Tech got better until perhaps end of the naughts. After that it’s just one bullshit excuse after the other to make devices obsolete as quick as possible. Plus the complete enshittification of the internet.

      I’m just glad that decentralized social media is becoming a thing and the FOSS movement is huge.

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    the unshittified internet

    If you were in the 1% or whatever of the developed-world population that had it, a nice collection of bookmarks and an hour to load every image over your shitty dialup.

    Like, I’ll go ahead and say the internet has gotten worse, but only after a decade or two where it got much, much better.

    As for the rest of the stuff, the 90’s were kind of a sweet spot. The Cold War was over, the new gilded age was just starting to gather and some of the 20th century problems were on their way out. Leaded gasoline, rampant littering, near-disposable cars and cigarette smoke everywhere are more 1980’s and earlier in my head.

    90’s music is often terrible to my ears, by the way, and grinding was weird.

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      90s alt rock is a pretty deep genre. Music-wise, I might take the 90s over either of the decades that followed it. And I’m sure that’s because it’s better and not because I grew up with it.

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        Okay, I do like some music from the 90’s. Some of it straight up sounds like parody now, though. I wasn’t sure WTF was going on when I heard “Too Close” for the first time.

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      Like, I’ll go ahead and say the internet has gotten worse, but only after a decade or two where it got much, much better.

      Yeah. 90s internet was really novel and interesting and unique, but after a couple hours you got bored. There wasn’t that much happening on it. Also slow as all hell.

      Then internet speeds picked up and there was enough content to keep you basically permanently entertained. Lot of entertaining stuff. The Age of Memes was truly upon us.

      Then the bad actors and village idiots were able to easily get access and understand they could use the internet for nefarious reasons and it’s been getting shittier for about the last decade or so. Realistically, probably around the time smartphones came out and the influx of fools was of tsunami proportions.

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    A few technological aspects of life are incredibly easier and more accessible. We have instant access to any form of information, from porn to encyclopedia articles. Comparing prices and ordering things - commonly called “mail order” 30 years ago - took weeks compared to a couple days now. Communication is far easier and cheaper - talking between San Francisco and Stockholm or Singapore would have cost several dollars per minute 30 years ago, and now it’s a built-in feature of network access. Most of us have in our pockets a telephone, photo/video camera, advanced computer, entertainment and game console. There have also been some notable medical advances - my friend died from leukemia in the 90s, and it’s very treatable now, along with various kinds of tumors.

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    HA no. I was there, it was… Well differently bad, maybe less in aggregate. Cultural attitudes really took a HARD turn when 9/11 happened, and the government abused it just about as hard as they could think of. President Obama did try to bring back some of that 90s optimism, but then along came Trump and ground it into dust.

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    According to social psych, this is called reconstructive memory, “reconstructing past behaviour” - tending to underreport bad behaviour and overreport good behaviour, sometimes remisrecalling our past as worse to justify self- improvement.

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    Crime has declined by 50% or more beginning in the mid to late 1980s and early 1990. While we still have some of the highest crime rates compared to other developed countries. I still think that this is something to be proud of.

    Also we are improving our urban planning to make our cities more walkabke, bicyclable, and livable.

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    In the 90s, people’s minds were blown by Crash Bandikoot, now I play Balatro and Hollow Knight. Sometimes I play The Finals, a 3D game so realistic you need to use a sniper scope to see textures, and buildings can be completely destroyed every match. While this may blow the minds of most people in the 90s, honestly it doesn’t even phase me, Balatro and Hollow Knight are so good, I prefer them most days.

    Yeah, this is way better.

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      Hmm, I actually love older games just as much as new, so that doesn’t bother me. Plus there is a lot more to life than gaming that has gone way down hill

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    Convenience-wise? Yes. A lot of things are easier to get taken care of now. From being able to handle DMV shit online to organizing events to paying bills. All way easier than they used to be.

    Everything else…yeah, no. Things are not good economically. Things are not good socially. Things are not good civically. Stress levels are high. Suicides are up. Wealth disparity is getting insane. Finding career jobs with good employers is rough. Have fun buying a house. You might be on the street if you have a medical emergency. Fuck you if you’re poor.

    Generally speaking, things are getting worse, but we’ve got some cool tech and easier payment methods while everything else goes to shit, so we’ve got that going for us.

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    30 years ago the Internet was tiny, and to this day you can largely get the same experience if you opt to ignore some of the more frustrating Internet. In practice it is a problem that extremist views can come closer together without the moderating influence of those physically near you. would definitely appreciate a harder push back towards federation and a break from subscription based software, though compared to 30 years ago, the free software today is better than anything we had back then.

    Our cars were not durable, drive trains can take a whole lot more negligence than they used to and hoses and gaskets last longer than they did back then. There have been struggles with some cars adding turbos for efficiency, but even those are way less problematic than they used to be.

    We can interact in real life, we just largely don’t. As an adult I probably interact with peers about as much as my parents did when they were my age, not much at all. Constant hanging out goes away with age for most people.

    There’s a lot of regression in the world but that pendulum swings back and forth.

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    Life and the world wasn’t as dangerous. It was easier, less stressful. Simpler 😊

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    Medical technology has greatly improved. More people survive cancer, aids, surgery is far less invasive, and better medications.

    Technology in general is getting better.

    We have a faster internet. I love having access to so much information. Sure, there are far more gullible fools who believe in all manner of silly stuff but I feel the internet has done more good than bad.

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      Medical technology has greatly improved.

      If you can afford it. Health insurance in the US was certainly better 30 years ago.

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      Life expectancy has gone up about 2 years since 1995 (from 76 to 78). Not a massive difference TBH.

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        Look at that dip right before 2020! Wonder why America dipped so much lower. Surely, face-masks as a way to prevent the spread of infectious disease wasn’t suddenly a controversial issue!

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        What about people’s overall health? Two years isn’t much but if a person’s last ten years is lived with less pain and more mobility that is something.

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      The one grape I have with the medical technology thing is the fact that if I used any of it I would be in debt for the rest of my life which would be longer because of the technology