If you find one, you find a group cos like attracts attracts like.

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    yeah… also male here. i… never really thought about this. if i dont know any rapists, that means i probably do know rapists that i dont know are rapists.

    well fuck.

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      Nah unlikely. Rape is mostly a corruption issue i think, like sex trafficking.

      This study of 12600 college students indicates that 87% of rape was committed by serial rapists , and 46% is committed by individuals who have committed 10+ rapes. overall 5% of surveyed students admitted to some form of rape while under the influence of alcohol, but 20% of women and 7% of men report being raped in the past.

      The thing about a serial rapist - they must have some means of keeping women from reporting them, or getting away with it repeatably.

      These people tend to use dogwhistles and form cliques, and once one gets into a position of power they get all their buddies up too to protect one another.

      Letcher county is an example of a ring that got busted open recently. The rural towns judge and deputy and their buddies basically threatened and coerced underage girls and their families into fucking them and attending diddy parties. The sheriff found his daughters number in the judges phone and shot him.

      Police do this regularly too in the USA, some places are better than others but the whole brotherhood and solidarity shit is basically their dogwhistle saying ‘we commit crime and cover for eachother.’ The louder they say it the worse they are. So naturally they attract rapists and murderers to join them, and fire out anyone that may blow the whistle on em.

      Its the same thing with weinstein, epstein, diddy, in the military, and probably trump with the republican party. A ringleader gets some power, grows their sphere of influence and uses it to gate opportunity or threaten women into sex acts. Rinse and repeat for decades and decades and you get a very small percent of people spreading stds like theyre halloween candies.

      And once people are in theres no getting out. Thats why epstein and diddy film everything, blackmail.

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        Police do this regularly too in the USA

        Military too. Base towns are full of victims and systems that protect rapists. Don’t go to Destin…

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      You know a lot of criminals.

      You likely know a murderer too.

      You may not know any intimately though, or you might win the people lottery and know them very very well.

      The person who posted this is very angry at men, and it’s not that they may not have good reason to be … but they appear to hate men in the manner a racist hates others.

      Don’t let this person make you feel bad, keep being a good person AND actually be the kind of person who would shun and call out bad people.

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            Not much to tell, the guy is in jail pending trial for one count of 2nd degree murder, one count of attempted murder. I believe the ‘reckless use of a firearm’ and related charges are dropped or stayed.

            He definitely did it. I spoke with the accused’s then girlfriend, apparently it was a coke deal gone wrong and he had taken his dad’s pistol to the exchange. I did not get a straight answer as to whether it was him attempting to rob them or vice versa.

            The humping was pre murder, just a drunken ‘joke’ that didn’t involve any skin contact and lasted only a moment, but now I get to tell people that “hey did you know John got humped by a murderer once?”