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Cake day: July 7th, 2023

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  • You have to be a bit selfish and think about what you want. Do you want kids? As a woman do you want to go through child birth? If these are things you don’t truly desire and want you’re going to be miserable raising a child, which won’t be good for you or the child.

    Also, if you and your partner are not on the same page here you need to be. You need to talk about what each other wants, and if you both want different things then you’ll want to consider your future together because it might not work out.

    Ultimately what you want and what your partner wants are both equally important.
















  • You’re not wrong. I should say more than that. Cars are a systemic issue that has seeped it’s way into every aspect of society here in the US. Everything is really far apart and outside of major cities there is no public transit that is quick and reliable so the only way to get around is to drive. Now everyone needs to buy and maintain a large vehicle. It’s expensive and takes up a lot of space in an extremely inefficient way. So inefficient that no highway could ever dream of transporting as many passengers as a single bus or train. The expense disproportionately effects poor people as the cost of a car doesn’t go down and just takes up a higher percentage of your income. Essentially being the reason you can’t ever save money and simultaneously the only thing bringing money in.

    Don’t forget about the climate effect it causes, and electric cars only sort of help.