It’s not a man’s job to go into dangerous situations, dangerous situations are not always more dangerous for women than for men, and situations that are “more dangerous for women” than “for men” aren’t always more dangerous for a specific woman than for a specific man.
It’s not gender roles, it’s a request based on specific circumstances that is voluntarily granted. The woman could go herself and it wouldn’t be inappropriate. The man could refuse and it wouldn’t be inappropriate. The situation could be more dangerous for the man (e.g. if she’s white and he’s latino and ICE are in town) and it wouldn’t be emasculating.
In this case, the logic favors the man taking the risk. Because we live in a patriarchal society, the logic often favors the man taking the risk. Even in an egalitarian society the forms of risk might match up with physiological differences in a way that causes the logic to statistically favor people of one gender taking the risk.
The important part is that it’s free association, not roles. The notion that people should be equal and “colorblind” is an intentionally malicious neoliberal reading of social justice intended to dismiss a generation of minority activists as “disciminatory in the opposite way” and to serve as an excuse to deregulate protections for women and minorities. Something that we should all unlearn ASAP so we can see each other as human beings and help each other.












The Nazis threw out quantum physics because it was a Jewish Science, turning Germany from the forefront of physics research into a nation with no nuclear program and outdated electronics.
The Americans threw out trolley networks because if capitalists bought them to destroy them so they could replace them with something worse that transferred more wealth from the poor to the rich, that is their right. This turned US city centers from thriving metropolises to ghost towns.
If the fossil fuel industry demands it and the Trump administration continues to consolidate its power at the current rate, the cops could go door to door confiscating and destroying solar panels a year or two from now.