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2 months agoAgreed.
So many cis people disagree with that, but still think it’s okay to “helpfully” remind someone considering if they’re trans that they could actually be cis.
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I don’t care for egg prime directive in the first place, but what really annoys me is that it clearly doesn’t go both ways.
I saw a tiktok today where a guy(?) was explicitly talking about having gender dysphoria and questioning if he’d rather be a girl. And so many of the comments were like “it’s completely okay to just be a fem guy too!!”
Sure that’s true, but I’m sure he knows that, and do they really think continuing to be cis is the more difficult path that requires a lot of support and validation?
i want to buy paper copies of books i’ve already read and loved, but i also want to spend that money on exciting books i haven’t read yet
Hi, I would like to sign up to not do the mega please
Went to a local pride event this weekend and it was a really good time
(even if I had to go home early because a friend hurt her ankle)
it’s alright
misgendering
Spent a week at my parent’s place, and while they’re both pretty supportive they keep accidentally using the wrong pronouns.
I try to tell myself it’s just old habit, but I keep wondering if maybe I’m not feminine enough and that’s why they mess up so often.
Also, I had to try boymoding going out to dinner with my grandparents, which sucked. I need to tell them since I want them to still be in my life but idk if they would understand.
Me and a friend played it earlier this year when it came out! Super chill and fun co-op
I suck at applying nail polish so I usually use press-on nails instead when I want to look good
therapy stuff, possibly a harmful take idk
The more i learn about the history of psychiatry as a field, particularly how it relates to queer people, the more skeptical I become of the whole thing as any sort of helpful tool, especially with how “you need therapy” has become one of the default answers to anyone struggling.
I didn’t have bad experiences with therapy, it was just sorta underwhelming for me, helpful in some minor ways, but it’s kinda hard to trust the field at all when it carries so much homophobic, racist, mysogynist and anti-trans baggage.
I love that photo!
I would love to limit my dating pool to only trans people at this point, but there’s just not many enough around for that to feel like a viable strategy
I hate wearing hats
It’s correct actually
Warm weather is best weather and makes it easy to wear cute clothes
Freezing is the worst
Imo it’s a lt easier if you get them waxed by someone who know what they’re doing first, so you can just maintain by following the shape they made for you
Stood in the checkout line behind a guy who was like 6’3 just towering over me
I should get back on the apps
Still a bit sad from yesterday, but I do feel a lot better.Went to the town center and got lost in the crowd for a while, looking at all the people and I don’t think I stand out as ugly or weird like I felt yesterday. Also, watched a bunch of tiktoks of this trend where women remove their filters and make-up and stuff and it made me feel ten times better even though it’s just a silly social media trend. Good to be reminded of how people actually look instead of comparing myself to perfect instagram models.
dysphoria talk
I took like 15 selfies trying to find one that makes me feel better, but they’re all grotesquely ugly and unbearable to look at. Feel like I shouldn’t even be allowed to go outside.
When I have a sore throat I find a little bit of liquor can help soothe it. I’d never have more than a tiny bit though, your body is already working hard fighting a virus, so making it fight alcohol at the same time is gonna make both things worse.