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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • I feel like this anger towards trans-lesbians is a spiralling problem caused by a minority of both groups acting out.

    I had two trans-lesbian friends who grew increasingly aggressive and abusive towards me when they discovered I wasn’t attracted to them physically or romantically, despite me never claiming to be bi or lesbian in any capacity. It got to the point where I developed a fear towards them that I would liken to that of a fear of an aggressive, sexually frustrated man. I cut them off before it escalated to something more intimately violent.

    I don’t hate trans-women or trans-lesbians because of it, but that’s because I viewed this behaviour as their own and not as a collective trait. It would be incredibly easy for me to just say all trans-lesbians are like that, and therefore I should exclude them from my life. But my experience is not unique, considering the growing disrest in the lesbian community.