We’re in the 21st century, and the vast majority of us still believe in an utterly and obviously fictional creator deity. Plenty of people, even in developed countries with decent educational systems, still believe in ghosts or magic (e.g. voodoo). And I–an atheist and a skeptic–am told I need to respect these patently false beliefs as cultural traditions.

Fuck that. They’re bad cultural traditions, undeserving of respect. Child-proofing society for these intellectually stunted people doesn’t help them; it is in fact a disservice to them to pretend it’s okay to go through life believing these things. We should demand that people contend with reality on a factual basis by the time they reach adulthood (even earlier, if I’m being completely honest). We shouldn’t be coddling people who profess beliefs that are demonstrably false, simply because their feelings might get hurt.

  • @NathanUp@lemmy.ml
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    101 year ago

    I think that often, people use the word respect in a different way when it comes to magical thinking. Religious people often use the word to mean exempt from examination, or beyond reproach. While it’s undoubtedly disrespectful to subject a person to an assault on their beliefs for no good reason, when those beliefs begin to play a role in decisions that will affect others, they can and should be challenged; people oughtn’t be shocked to learn that if they bring their beliefs into the public discourse around a policy decision, they’ll be subject to the same level of scrutiny as any other way of thinking or approaching a problem.

    • @Flyswat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      -31 year ago

      I am Muslim, and Islam encourages thought, scrutiny and pondering.

      On social media the more vocal are from Europe and NA who have been in contact with (the remains of) Judaism and Christianity. So when talking about religions, in fact they mean just these two; or they extrapolate thinking the conclusions apply to all religions.

      I think the average person knows close to nothing about Islam. Worse, they only know what is portrayed by the media or islamophobes online which is mostly wrong or twisted.

      • TigrisMorte
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        41 year ago

        Mostly, anyone in the US that mentions Christianity mean Evangelical Conservatives as those are the loudest. And Evangelicals on average know next to nothing about the Religion they claim others must follow.

      • @Cypher@lemmy.world
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        21 year ago

        I’m glad you made a strawman of ignorance because I have read the Quran, I specifically enjoyed the “religion of peace” prescribed methods of dealing with a disagreement with a wife and the stoning of apostates.

        As to those women on whose part ye fear disloyalty and ill-conduct, admonish them (first), (next), refuse to share their beds, (and last) beat them (lightly); but if they return to obedience, seek not against them means (of annoyance): For Allah is Most High, great (above you all)

        I know Islam is as despicable as all other Abrahamic religions because they are all rooted in cruelty, superstition and ignorance.

        • @Flyswat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          -71 year ago

          And I take it you already read the explanation of the Prophet (pbuh) of that verse, meaning as a light flick with a pen, and not putting your own understanding of the translated verse. How violent!

          Also that you are fully aware of the setting in which the apostasy laws are applicable (I will not help you with that, you should know).

          because they are all rooted in cruelty, superstition and ignorance. I am not discussing other religions, Islam is the topic here.

          Could you objectively demonstrate how it is cruel? How is Islam superstitious? And finally how is it rooted in ignorance?

          • @Cypher@lemmy.world
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            41 year ago

            You’re putting a lot of stock in the words of a pedophile and expecting me to do the same.

            Where is the verse that says women can admonish, withold sex and beat their disobedient husbands? It doesn’t exist because the goat fuckers who wrote that vile book viewed women as property.

            Cruel? There are guidelines for slavery in all Abrahamic religions.

            Superstitious and ignorant? Believing in a magical sky fairy. Enough said.

            • @Flyswat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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              11 year ago

              Ok, there is a lot to unpack. Let’s discuss each point :)

              You’re putting a lot of stock in the words of a pedophile and expecting me to do the same.

              You must be referring to Aisha. How is he a paedophile? This is known as a fallacy of presentism: judging something that happened at a different time using current day standards disregarding the context.

              Some sources say they were bethrothed when she was at the age of 6, others say 7. They then consummated the marriage when she was 9 when she reached puberty as was custom at the time. A time where a 10 year-old boy could inherit his father and become the head of the house. In a society where there was only 2 categories: kids and adults, adulthood being reached at puberty. At a time where the average life expectancy was around 27 against around 80 in current western countries. So now you get the context.

              No body at the time used this argument because it was just the way society was. It is illogical to judge a distant society with the arbitrary norms of nowadays. There is no consensus amongst western countries about the legal age of marriage or of consent. There is even divergence within the US. It even changes in the span of half a century, in these countries, from 12 to 16. So how can we objectively judge societies from 14 centuries ago?

              Where is the verse that says women can admonish, withold sex and beat their disobedient husbands?

              The premise of this question is false. It implies that there should be a symmetry for there to be equality, otherwise one side is considered less than the other. Islam’s view is coherent with the fact that both man and woman are different physically and psychologically different. It gives to each his role within the society and family at a smaller scale. None is considered less than the other.

              It doesn’t exist because the goat fuckers who wrote that vile book viewed women as property.

              Who wrote the book? (Also, language?)

              Cruel? There are guidelines for slavery in all Abrahamic religions.

              Not the same slavery as what happened in America, but yes, having servants was widespread at the time and the genetic guideline is free them.

              Superstitious and ignorant? Believing in a magical sky fairy. Enough said.

              Are you implying you have evidence God does not exist?

              • @Cypher@lemmy.world
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                01 year ago

                They then consummated the marriage when she was 9 when she reached puberty as was custom at the time.

                Fucking a 9 year old is abhorrent if it happened two thousand years ago or today. A 9 year old is not an adult. Having a period does not make a girl an adult. If your “god” is the source of all knowledge then why wouldn’t he inform the so called profit before he was off raping children? The whole thing is disgusting and anyone that defends it should be summarily executed.

                average life expectancy was around 27

                Infant mortality skews this, it wasn’t unusual for an adult to live to 60, assuming they made it to adulthood in the first place.

                So how can we objectively judge societies from 14 centuries ago?

                Well the religious claim is they’re the source of all fucking morality because they do what their god told them! Did your god suddenly up and change the age at which someone matures into an adult or was he just along for the show when the dirty prophet was off raping a 9 year old?

                None is considered less than the other.

                So women aren’t allowed to preach, aren’t allowed to own land, aren’t allowed to admonish their shitty goat fucking husbands, but they’re somehow equal. Not buying it and thankfully many women aren’t either, because women are far more likely to stop practicisng Islam than men.

                Who wrote the book?

                The aforementioned goat fuckers.

                Not the same slavery as what happened in America

                Any and all slavery is abhorrent and cruel.

                Are you implying you have evidence God does not exist?

                The burden of proof is on the nut jobs claiming there’s a magic sky fairy not on me.

                • @Flyswat@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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                  01 year ago

                  You are not backing any of your emotional claims and just keep repeating how cruel, abhorrent and “bad” what things that differ from what you perceive as “right” are (also slurs). Also calm down with the hate speech (“summarily executed”).

                  Calm down (if this not just a rhetoric you are using since you know you have no logical ground) and use your brain.

                  You missed the whole point that whatever morality you are holding is subjective. If you accept yours as valid, it means you cannot disagree with whatever morality others may have because they followed the same process as you to have theirs since it is subjective to them and their context. If you disagree with your views being subjective, you are invited to demonstrate how they are objective.

                  You postulate that a 9 year old is not an adult. Today I agree with you. Kids spend a lot of time at schools, watch cartoons, play games etc. So by the age of 9 they have no experience of the world and cannot be responsible of a household. At the time however things were completely different, they were directly confronted to life, had responsibility caring for their brothers and sisters and working. You can still find pictures of 3 year old working in the US from the late 90s.

                  They matured faster then compared to current days.

                  The question is at what age do we reach adulthood? Even in current days, with children living in somewhat comparable conditions, many disagree. Each country decides what is the legal age, which is different from its neighbours (and even differs within the country, eg. the US) but that is what each society decided. You claim there is a universal and atemporal age? The world and history disagrees with you. So at that time and in that society they decided the rule was to reach puberty. You don’t like it? It’s normal, it’s subjective.

                  Just a note: Islam doesn’t fix the age of consent but says the norm of the society should be followed. Which means the condition of reaching puberty cannot be applied wholesale today, and the local customs should be followed.

                  So how can we objectively judge societies from 14 centuries ago?

                  This question was directed to you and you evaded it.

                  So women aren’t allowed to preach

                  False, they can amongst women and only of necessary if men are around. You might bicker about this but this is normal since you are not familiar with the concept of حياء (there isn’t a word for it in English and gets mistranslated as shyness) and the respect of women.

                  aren’t allowed to own land

                  False, Islam came and changed that. They can inherit properties instead of being inherited themselves. And whatever women possess, whatever money they earn (of course they can work) is solely theirs and the husband has no right whatsoever on it. She can come from a rich family, the husband still has to provide for her and the house. Of course both can agree to share however they see fit, it’s up to them but she had every right to just keep her money.

                  aren’t allowed to admonish their [civilified] husbands

                  They can and they can even ask a judge and get divorce.

                  Who wrote the book?

                  Wrong answer. You can say “I don’t know” if you don’t know.

                  Any and all slavery is abhorrent and cruel.

                  Not true for all. Islam forbade taking free people as servants, exception for prisoners of war since there was no prison system. Also in many occasions pushed to free slaves, for the expiation of sins for example. Islam put the framework so that in the end many of those who had servants when Islam came had none over time. People bought some in order to free them: a notable example is Bibal ibn Rabbah, an Ethiopian slave bought to be freed by Abu Bakr (the 1st Caliph); he later became the treasurer of the state.

    • TigrisMorte
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      -41 year ago

      Your belief of what “Religious People” mean is no more relevant than their belief. Respecting their belief means not demanding they believe what you can no more prove than they can disprove. And just as they must respect your belief, so to must you respect theirs. To do otherwise makes you exactly the same as the Evangelicals who are demanding you change your beliefs.

      • @Cypher@lemmy.world
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        91 year ago

        Why must I respect someone’s belief? Is this some fundamental law of reality?

        Respecting their belief means not demanding they believe what you can no more prove than they can disprove.

        Literally all religions are making claims. Claims they cannot prove. I have no reason to respect fools who make claims they cannot prove.

        • TigrisMorte
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          -41 year ago

          Enjoy your bigotry, but don’t pretend your beliefs are any more valid than anyone else’s. And yes, that is the Law, at least in the US. You can’t discriminate against other’s for their beliefs.

          • 𝖒𝖆𝖋
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            41 year ago

            Atheism is more valid though and there is an abundance of proof.

            From biology we know there is no life after death which disproves most religions. From experiments we also know that praying doesn’t affect physical world. None of the known miracles couod have been reproduced under controlled conditions which makes it likely they are all made up or hallucinated.

            • TigrisMorte
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              01 year ago

              The moment you declare that your belief is more valid than another Person’s belief is the moment you out yourself as a bigot wishing to impose those beliefs upon others.

          • @Cypher@lemmy.world
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            01 year ago

            So not a fundamental law of reality, not applicable to me, or even most of the world.

            By the way the very idea of freedom of religion and respecting beliefs grew from non-religious sectarian elements of the enlightenment era.

            You know, the era that started out with the burning of churches and lynching of priests because they were a blight on society and allied with the monarchy.

            Religions have always discriminated against nonbelievers so hearing you small minded fools cry about it is really just music to my ears.

            My “beliefs” are based in observable, testable, proven fact and not superstitious nonsense written down by goat fuckers 2,000 years ago.

            • TigrisMorte
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              -11 year ago

              There are no fundamental law of reality, only our perception of the power around us.
              The rest of it is utterly irrelevant whining about how your feelings.

              In no way do your beliefs out weigh anyone else’s beliefs. If you think otherwise you are nothing but a self important bigot.

                • TigrisMorte
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                  -21 year ago

                  All theories that have been proven to be facts but whose exact workings we still don’t remotely understand.
                  And while insulting People attempting to get a rise so you can feel all superior as you strut about isn’t the flex you think it is.
                  Particularly when you blatantly have not a clue about any of the subjects you claim support your position.

                  • @Cypher@lemmy.world
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                    11 year ago

                    whose exact workings we still don’t remotely understand.

                    Your lack of comprehension has no impact on what the rest of us, who possess more than far more than the two brain cells you are misusing, can comprehend.

                    Gravity is most accurately described by the general theory of relativity (proposed by Albert Einstein in 1915), which describes gravity not as a force, but as the curvature of spacetime, caused by the uneven distribution of mass, and causing masses to move along geodesic lines.