• vacuumflower@lemmy.sdf.org
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    1 year ago

    It’s not about admitting, it’s about finding in which particular thing you are wrong.

    Then after trying to find that thing for some time you become not even hateful, just seriously irritated by “admitting something” and “just changing yourself” not helping at all without specifics, and people around you just assuming that it would.

    Source - have the same problems, never been an incel though. Actually probably that’s why my comment is not very relevant.