Hey. As a non-binary, I can speak to society. There are plenty of people who feel their masculinity or femininity threatened by my existence. I try to ignore them.

I focus on what makes me feel comfortable. Whether that is secrets like my underwear, details like my earrings, or a bigger statement like a skirt. If I feel comfortable, people around me feel more comfortable.

Also, dont take spironolactone. Its poison. Estradiol alone lowers your testosterone. And progesterone is great (and sleepy).