As far as I can tell none of the romance options are limited by gender, certainly my (girl) tav romanced shadowheart no problems whatsoever. There are also two women who, if you save both of them at various points, show up later in the game as a couple. You can also meet a trans woman that shadowheart knew as a kid before her transition, and she’s voiced by a trans actor (Abigail Thorne) iirc, and from what I recall handled pretty well. I don’t think you’re ambushed into the romance stuff but tbqh I quite like that sorta thing so am perhaps not the best judge. Can’t remember much else but it seems relatively cool as big budget games go.