So I’ve realized that in conversations I’ll use traditional terms for men as general terms for both genders, both singularly and for groups. I always mean it well, but I’ve been thinking that it’s not as inclusive to women/trans people.
For example I would say:
“What’s up guys?” “How’s it going man?” "Good job, my dude!” etc.
Replacing these terms with person, people, etc sounds awkward. Y’all works but sounds very southern US (nowhere near where I am located) so it sounds out of place.
So what are some better options?
My personal recommendation is to drop the extra title entirely. For everybody.
E.g. instead of saying “great work man” just say “great work.” It could help you prevent flubs later.
I do wish I knew some non-binary singular terms I could use, but none come to my mind