Hello I wanted to share one of my special interests with you that I rarely see talked about and that is the art of sailing.

In trying to make retirement plans two key points loomed; I wanted to be mobile and I didn’t want to be dependent on fossil fuels.  Who knows what all that is going to look like in the future.   Liveaboard sailboats looked like a decent fit for what I wanted so I needed to see if I could handle sailing.  Not having spare cash for sailing lessons I instead saved up for a year and purchased a very cheap 15’ catboat and trailer to learn to sail on.  I took some free online courses and read some books and that was enough to sail many nautical miles over the last few years, solo and with passengers, and to even teach others how to sail.

I have had the privilege to grow up around boats and to go on many voyages but these were either noisy power boats or self propelled craft like canoes and kayaks.  Sailing is such a unique and incredible experience, the amount of power the wind holds and the feeling of catching a sliver of that power for your own purposes is tremendous.

I’ll share with you some of the more interesting things I have learned!

* Points of Sail

(image src: https://pixabay.com/vectors/sailing-diagram-points-of-sail-26589/)

The points of sail are named wedges of a pie oriented by the direction of the wind.   So if the wind is coming from the east, you couldn’t sail east as you would be In Irons and sailing north or south would have you on a Beam Reach.     There are no sailboats that can sail directly into the wind.   Modern sail and hull technology has improved our ability to sail close hauled up to only a few degrees off the wind.

* The number of masts and type of sails determines the type of boat

If you drive by a marina or cross a bridge on a sunny day you will almost assuredly see scores of bermuda rigged sloops, the most popular configuration for recreational sailboats.    A sloop is a sailboat with a single mast towards the center of the boat.  The Bermuda Rig sail plan is when you have triangular sails fixed to the mast.    Each little variation changes things up; rig two foresails in front of the mast and your sloop is now a cutter for instance.

Each additional mast and where it’s located also changes the sailboat type.  A second shorter mast to the stern (rear) of the boat and you’re sailing a ketch or yawl.   Move that second shorter mast up front instead and you’re in a schooner!  Move the main central mast to the fore (front) and you are in a catboat.   These variants give you different handling characteristics in different wind and they all have their place.

* Most sailboats are rigged to sail into the wind, not with the wind.

The main difference in sailboat rigging comes down to square sails vs triangular/wing sails.   When sailboats were first invented square sails were the rage, they catch the wind and the more of them you have the more wind they can catch.  A fully rigged tall ship with 4 masts can hold so many sails!  With all of them deployed you can move downwind hauling a great deal of cargo.

Referencing our points of sail above a square rigged ship can sail on a broad or beam reach or running but not a close reach or close hauled.  If a square rigged ship wants to move upwind it needs to wait for the wind to change or engage in difficult manual means like kedging; using the anchor to drag the ship forward a few dozen yards at a time.

This is the beauty of the bermuda rigged sail.  Functioning like an airplane wing this sail plan works with the boats keel to pull the boat into the wind; bermuda rigged boats sail better against the wind than with it!  By tacking (sailing in a zigzag pattern) these boats can sail indirectly upwind.  The wind pulling forward on the sails wing shape instead of pushing against offers greater control and more safety for the crew as the boom swings during these course changes.  This was a major game changer for sailing ships and is the reason this sail plan dominates today;  as long as there is wind you can get to your destination.

The next generation of sailing ships like those seen in world cup racers utilizes an inflatable or fixed edge sail allowing for sailing almost directly into the wind, just a few degrees off vs the 22° or so you might get with your average sloop.   The closer these ships can sail into the wind the more advantage they have on different legs of a race so every degree is hard fought for.

* knots per hour

boat speed is measured in knots (kn) and is fixed at  1.852 km/h.   Per wikipedia “A vessel travelling at 1 knot along a meridian travels approximately one minute of geographic latitude in one hour.”

Most vessels measure this via gps these days but the old school method was to drop a small piece of wood tied to a line with knots in it over the stern (rear) of the ship and count how many knots were payed out over 30 seconds.   This was remarkably accurate and reliable method of measuring a ships speed!

* heaving to

I’m including this because it’s something many people may have heard in popular culture and might want to know what it’s about.

Heaving To is a parking maneuver that works in all but the roughest seas.  Sometimes you want to stop your boat; maybe a man overboard or the navigator needs a celestial fix.

It’s different for each sail plan but basically you position your sails and rudder so that some of the wind pushes, some of the wind pulls and any forward movement causes the ship to turn into the wind, stopping that movement.  This effectively keeps the ship in place or moving forward very slowly.

* port and starboard

This is one of the most delightful things I learned about sailing and knowing the why helps with remembering the which.    When the portugese were first inventing modern sailing, the ships did not have a rudder or helm.   Instead a person would stand off to the starboard (right) side of the stern (back) and use the steorbord, old english for Steer Board, which was just a long funny looking oar.   Because the steorboard operator always stood on the right when a ship would come to port they would always approach the dock with the clear left (port) side of the ship.   Over time these labels stuck so even though we no longer use a steorboard to steer our sailboat (we use a rudder) the names port and starboard have stuck.   To remember you can use the mnemonic

Is there any Port wine Left?

* paint lines on the boat

You may have noticed jaunty lines on the hulls of sailboats right about at water level.  Sometimes these are decorative or used to hide hull marks but most sailboats have at least one painted line called the waterline.  This line should exactly match the actual line of water when the ship is loaded and trimmed perfectly.  If your waterline is underwater your ship is overloaded.  If the waterline is underwater at the stern and above water at the bow you might need to shift cargo forward, etc.   Some commercial ships will have additional lines for the legal weight limit and such.

* no ropes only line

if you go to the hardware store and buy some rope to rig something on your boat, the moment you put it on the boat it ceases being a rope and becomes a line.  It’s said by old salts that the only ropes on a ship are on the ships bell and the life ring (and various other small non sailing exceptions).   If you call the line a rope other sailors will give you shit it’s part of the culture.

* track all boats

lastly, this isn’t really limited to sailboats and is mostly in fact commercial vessels but you might be interested in https://www.marinetraffic.org/marine-traffic a site where you can see a lot of real time ships traffic globally.  I learned about some amazing canals China had with this and it’s really interesting to track hurricanes and such by seeing where the boats go.  Sometimes you see some exceptionally brave or stupid captains that sail right through the hurricanes and it always makes me wonder what’s going on.

That’s all I have, i tried to limit it to only the more interesting things i learned about sailing over the past couple years.  Thank you for letting me do a mega post this made me a bit nervous but it was fun. I know sailing is largely a hobby of the wealthy today but i don’t believe it has to be. I’m very poor and have no steady job but that didn’t stop me. My journey into sailing has actually made me a tiny amount of money as boats don’t depreciate like cars do so if you are interested in sailing don’t think that you need a lot of money! There are public docks you can launch at for free and if you lurk for sale sites long enough people give away boats that need a little love frequently. I waited half a year before the right opportunity dropped into my lap so patience is key here. Good luck and happy sailing :)

The main picture painting is by Russ Kramer at russkramer.com


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  • 30_to_50_Feral_PAWGs [she/her]@hexbear.net
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    Finally came out as trans to my mom. Her first question was if I’m growing boobs lea-tired

    Let’s hope this goes over better than it did for my (much, much younger large adult) stepbrother.

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    I don’t care for egg prime directive in the first place, but what really annoys me is that it clearly doesn’t go both ways.

    I saw a tiktok today where a guy(?) was explicitly talking about having gender dysphoria and questioning if he’d rather be a girl. And so many of the comments were like “it’s completely okay to just be a fem guy too!!”

    Sure that’s true, but I’m sure he knows that, and do they really think continuing to be cis is the more difficult path that requires a lot of support and validation?

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      People should be given all the information they need to make decisions. If they haven’t considered they may be trans, they have a right to know imo

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        Agreed.

        So many cis people disagree with that, but still think it’s okay to “helpfully” remind someone considering if they’re trans that they could actually be cis.

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        you’d think the name would have been a hint since violating the prime directive is one of the underlying foundations of 99.9% of all star trek plots

    • yewler [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      19 days ago

      I really don’t like the egg prime directive. It seems like it works under the assumption that the thought of a person being trans would be such a horrible experience for them. I said so much egg shit before I realized I was trans and I just never realized that I could be trans. I just never considered it. I really wish just one person would have asked me if I had considered whether or not I might actually want to be a girl. I figured it out eventually but it would have been so much easier if I had considered it as even a possibility sooner.

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      If this is a consequence of being raised AMAB I wish all the creepy cishet men on earth who I’ve had the displeasure of interacting with would have internalized it. If anything, the performance of hegemonic masculinity expects that you be brazen, threatening, indifferent towards the consequences of expressing your desire. And to show any hesitation is blood in the water.

      It’s a queer experience (ask cis queer people about it!) and it’s a neurodivergent experience. It’s an EMPOC experience too! It’s nothing to do with what a doctor decided when you were born however long ago, though. It’s a consequence of existing outside of hegemonic conceptualizations of masculinity.

  • 0x2640 [pup/pup's, she/her]@hexbear.net
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    so tired of people saying “trust me you dont want big boobs because (insert downsides here)” yes i do. yes i do want big boobs. yes even with all the downsides i still want big boobs. the dysphoria lifted from having them far outweighs even a fraction of a percent of the downsides of having them. shut the fuck up.

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        18 days ago

        according to my big boobed trans friends: the back pain is worth it

        on ur dysphoria

        big gurls pwettyyyy :3 n ur pwettty!!! nuffin wrong wif wanting to not be big gurl but also nuffin wrong with bein big gurl :p

      • dysphoria

        I’m pretty big so I think they’d need to be big to fit :::

        Tap for spoiler

        Sames. I’m impressed by how people seem to not notice despite their current size (except like that one creep). Like I rather people at work not notice still, so not really complaining. But also kinda wish they were large enough I needed to wear a hoodie to hide them. But I definitely did not need to be worried about people noticing early on

    • dandelion [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      there is also that middle ground where dysphoria is lifted but you don’t have back problems - I just want boobs that are reasonable relative to my frame. My shoulders and rib cage are so large that my breasts don’t look large enough relative to them.

      either way, breast augmentation is an option

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        breast augmentation is an option if you have thousands of dollars to spend on it and live in a place where its safe to get it

        we fail to see the point of this comment, it feels very “yea but you could have smaller boobs that still alleviate dysphoria” which is exactly what the original post was fuckin complaining about people saying

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          yes, or insurance that covers it (at least in the U.S.) - definitely not accessible to everyone, but something many people could save or work towards (esp. compared to vaginoplasty, which is more expensive and a much harder recovery).

          I definitely had to change insurance to get a plan that would cover gender affirming care (I didn’t get breast augmentation, but I know a girl IRL who did).

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        I just want boobs that are reasonable relative to my frame. My shoulders and rib cage are so large that my breasts don’t look large enough relative to them.

        Yea pretty much same situation for me. Idk how much a BA would be for me but hopefully I can get insurance that covers other things and my savings can go for that. Want things to look proportional but I’m big so they probably need to be big

        • dandelion [she/her]@hexbear.net
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          I’ve heard breast forms can be a useful way to figure out the sizing that feels right before getting the surgery.

          There are a few reasons I haven’t had a BA, but one of them is that I’ve heard they don’t last forever. Mostly though I have had to prioritize the greater sources of dysphoria. I would rather get FFS than a BA at this point, and I’ve had an orchi and a vaginoplasty as well. I have doubts I’ll have access to surgery again, though - it doesn’t seem likely.

          Hopefully you can get insurance that covers it, even if it means using the exchange - that can really help. I don’t know how much a BA costs, but I think it’s much cheaper than a vaginoplasty, for example.

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            Ooh that’s a good suggestion

            I have some kind of blindness in the mirror and really can’t tell what I actually look like or what needs to change to make me look feminine. Orchi is a priority for me- I can’t sus out my feelings about full srs for the life of me and am hoping hrt makes that more clear. I’m sorry about your future surgery chances.

            What do you mean by using the exchange? Yes it definitely is, I couldn’t afford srs without insurance. But srs seems more typical for insurance to cover(?)

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              ah, you aren’t on HRT yet? I remember what that blindness was like, it sorta continues but I did find as HRT worked on my face and body, I developed a clear sense of preference and identity over a period of 6+ months (the changes are slow).

              Orchi was a priority for me, too - I suggest getting it ASAP (in the U.S. insurance requirements force you to wait 1 year on authorized HRT before you can get any gender-affirming surgeries, so get on HRT ASAP and then 1 year from then, you can get the orchi - they are fairly affordable and easy to recover from, and out-patient, highly recommend).

              I was pretty sure when I transitioned that I wouldn’t get a vaginoplasty, and when I researched it, I kept comforting myself that I really wouldn’t ever do that. Aaaand that didn’t last long, feelings about SRS changed with HRT, estrogen was very clarifying.

              And by the exchange I mean the state exchanges that allow you to buy an insurance plan - this is what the Affordable Care Act brought about, you can get insurance outside of your employer now.

              SRS was covered by my insurance, but I think it just depends on the plan - I don’t actually know if my insurance covers BA, but I suspect it might. Regardless, it’s not a priority for me, and you should definitely wait until you’ve been on HRT for a little bit before deciding on a BA, since you might have large enough breasts from estrogen and progesterone to not feel too dysphoric (my breasts aren’t the best, but they’re definitely large enough that people see me as a woman and my dysphoria isn’t too bad around them). I know a woman who waited years to get a BA, then after her BA her breasts were still growing and now they’re too large. Still, it’s all about your dysphoria and comfort, can also help to see a therapist to work through these decisions. Insurance required letters from two different psychologists approving my gender affirming surgeries, so you will have to find a therapist anyway if you’re planning on surgery, might as well use that opportunity to work through big decisions like this.

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                No 😔 hopefully in the next, maybe two weeks. That’s really good to hear, it is very disconcerting.

                I’m diying atm, but yes I hope to start at planned parenthood or similar when I’m able. That’s what I’ve heard and I’m really looking forward to it. Easy recovery sounds really good.

                That’s kinda my fear. I mean, clarity will be really good but I’m still really hoping I don’t need full srs. Probably will want it though.

                Ooh, okay. I’m still on my parents and not very knowledgeable of how insurance works. I plan on waiting, long wait… Just thinking about it. I’m trying not to worry but I still am a bit. Just bc my underbust size I guess. Thank you!

      • Shaleesh [she/her, comrade/them]@hexbear.net
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        This was in reference to a school shooting in which a transfeminine individual shot a few dozen people, killing two elementary-aged children. I was anticipating a media frenzy around the gender identity of the shooter, but that never actually came. Given that this individual was groomed by a known network of far right accelerationists I assume part of the goal here was to create a situation where trans people would be bombarded with messaging suggesting that transness was the cause of the shooting.

        Basically I was shielding myself from The Discourse.

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          ah, at some point I heard the news and figured that might be it - thanks for confirming, and I’m sorry :-(

          I’m really shocked they didn’t turn this into anti-trans hysteria soviet-hmm

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    I keep flip flopping between

    "men catgirl-heart " and

    "men 😨 "

    What am I to even name this syndrome?

    The contrasts between real men who will hurt me and fictional men who won’t places a great burden on my fair maiden heart.

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    the girls have been hurting something awful today and i dont particularly know why. Pretty sure my e levels are mega high now and my T is completely suppressed again, so that for sure has something to do with it. either way - ouchy

    also i’m gay for women

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    My new neighbor has turned out to be the kind of guy who is constantly yelling, just like my downstairs neighbor. The difference is that downstairs guy is frat-bro-y and annoying, the new guy is angry and his voice hits that particular trigger

    [tounge click]

    just right 👌.

    He will not be recieving the candle I made him as a “Hello neighbor!” welcome gift.

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    Following this Minnesota shooting is not healthy for me at this point. So many cis people saw that it was a trans woman and have taken that as an excuse to intentionally misgender her. And then they accuse anyone who says anything about it of politicizing the death of children and defending a murderer. Like the comments sections of everything I’ve seen have been full of it. Fuck this Nazi ass shooter but also fuck cis people who drop their support at the drop of a hat