• potoooooooo ☑️@lemmy.world
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    42 minutes ago

    Not to keep harping on it, but so relevant: watch The Bear. Specifically the first two seasons. Then you’ll get why it’s relevant. I promise it’s worth it!

  • slakje@piefed.social
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    10 hours ago

    Whenever I am using the kitchen is the exact moment that everyone else decides they need something from it and try to shove past me.

    I’ve also learned to let people form their own opinions on the food I made instead of preemptively telling them it didn’t come out as well as it could have. Unless it was my first time making something complex, they’ve always been satisfied :)

          • GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip
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            3 hours ago

            Because it’s tedious having to consider who might feel excluded, offended, or whatever else on every single innocent thought. I’m sure op didnt mean just women, it’s okay to extrapolate without making a fuss each time.

            • luciferofastora@feddit.org
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              16 minutes ago

              I don’t think anyone was making a fuss, we all know the force of habit. To me, it looked like a simple reminder.

              If you don’t want to spend that energy and time, will you at least accept the help of others pointing it out? It’s okay to acknowledge when you’re being thoughtless without getting defensive.

  • Fizz@lemmy.nz
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    9 hours ago

    If anyone down plays the food i’ll downplay my compliment except my mum because even when she burnts the fuck out of the meal it still tastes good to me.